continued... We are pleased with the care she is getting at the nursing home, and I realize that goes hand in hand with me, my brother, and/or a paid caregiver being with her daily. They know us, they know they are going to see us every day, and they are quick to respond to any concerns that we have. I am very comfortable there. I would never have chosen this for her, but this is where we are and it seems to be working right now. In some ways I think it is a gift that she sees and understands that she is not the only one who can't talk, can't walk, and has limitations. She sees the same people every day, sometimes she acknowledges them and they respond to her, and most importantly I know that she is never alone. I always thought that I would know when to stop the tube feedings, and the reality that I don't is heartbreaking to me. The fact that I can come here, and you all understand and care about me and my mom in Pittsburgh, PA, is what gets me thru the day sometimes. Thank you.
Trina