RSV Aus
New member
- Joined
- Aug 30, 2016
- Messages
- 9
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 10/2015
- Country
- Aus
- State
- NSW
- City
- Sydney
Lenore, I'm so sorry you find yourself here going through what you are, but you're absolutely right - this is THE place the speak your truths. Thank you for sharing your story and literally summarising exactly how most CALS feel most of the time!
This disease is out of anyone's control and it can leave you feeling helpless and overwhelmed. And you're right, so many people around us even if they're trying to help, just don't understand what it's like, the daily struggles we go through. They have these wild expectations of you to "be positive" all the time and if you're not then somehow you're a failure?? So there's this constant pressure to have it all together and be the calm in storm all the time, and it's really tough.
But as so many others have said, CALS plough on because we have to - because our PALS rely on us and we don't want to let them down, and because life and all our other responsibilities go on relentlessly. Be kind to yourself. You are in a really difficult situation and you're doing the best you can Do you get any "you" time? Any opportunities for respite, even for a short time?
This disease is out of anyone's control and it can leave you feeling helpless and overwhelmed. And you're right, so many people around us even if they're trying to help, just don't understand what it's like, the daily struggles we go through. They have these wild expectations of you to "be positive" all the time and if you're not then somehow you're a failure?? So there's this constant pressure to have it all together and be the calm in storm all the time, and it's really tough.
But as so many others have said, CALS plough on because we have to - because our PALS rely on us and we don't want to let them down, and because life and all our other responsibilities go on relentlessly. Be kind to yourself. You are in a really difficult situation and you're doing the best you can Do you get any "you" time? Any opportunities for respite, even for a short time?