lms9258
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Nov 4, 2009
- Messages
- 112
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 07/2009
- Country
- US
- State
- Wisconsin
- City
- Milwaukee
Hi everyone,
I come on this forum sometimes and read, and learn from you all, but I don't have much time to myself, therefore, I don't post or ask questions (which I sooooo need to do!) My mom was diagnosed with FTD 5/07, and ALS 7/09. I think it! was bulbar onset--I have been meaning to ask that question on here--but never did, (you'd think her ALS Neuro"specialist" would have informed us, I'm really tired of so many medical professionals being so ignorant about ALS!).
I am my mom's primary caregiver, at least 4 days per week--at her house--24 hours per day. I am married, have 3 kids, 3 step-kids (all adults), and 7 grandchildren between the two of us. I have been caring for my mom for 14 mos. now. I have 4 siblings that "help" (very minimally), with the never-ending issues involved with her care. Because of the family dynamics involved, they all know I would do almost anything for our loving mother. Therefore, I do almost everything under the #@&*#@& sun--even though I'm not really "in charge" of anything! I also have 2 siblings that live out of state--no help there.
Because of the dementia (especially), and the ALS, I cannot ever leave her here alone on my Shifts. I'm Trapped! (Don't get me wrong. My mom is the most loving, kind person. I love her dearly).
I realize I'm not providing a lot of specific details (that would require 25 pages, and I'm a slow typist as well). Also, like I said, I don't have much time for myself-- can't even get to the ALS support groups, much less go to the much, desperately, needed counseling I need. I have left a message for the ALS Clinic Social Worker (Milwaukee), and she is a great listener and ally(Sp?), but she must not have had time to call me back today. I am so beside myself right now, I guess the 4 other sibling thing just pushed me over the edge. Believe me, I would so like to be asking an important question about my mom's care, instead of ranting and raving about how I just can't take their s#@& anymore.
I am really sorry for this crazy sounding, "poor me" post. I am also not too savvy in the e-mail, and messaging department. You don't know me, but I thank you all for the support I have felt here, and all of the 1st hand, intelligent answers I have gotten from many of you.
Thanks for "listening", especially because I am not sure my overloaded self made much sense.
Peace to you all,
Laura
P.S. Could someone tell me how I can PM another member? I do have some very important questions to ask a couple of you pertaining to actual health issues regarding my mom. Thanks again.
I come on this forum sometimes and read, and learn from you all, but I don't have much time to myself, therefore, I don't post or ask questions (which I sooooo need to do!) My mom was diagnosed with FTD 5/07, and ALS 7/09. I think it! was bulbar onset--I have been meaning to ask that question on here--but never did, (you'd think her ALS Neuro"specialist" would have informed us, I'm really tired of so many medical professionals being so ignorant about ALS!).
I am my mom's primary caregiver, at least 4 days per week--at her house--24 hours per day. I am married, have 3 kids, 3 step-kids (all adults), and 7 grandchildren between the two of us. I have been caring for my mom for 14 mos. now. I have 4 siblings that "help" (very minimally), with the never-ending issues involved with her care. Because of the family dynamics involved, they all know I would do almost anything for our loving mother. Therefore, I do almost everything under the #@&*#@& sun--even though I'm not really "in charge" of anything! I also have 2 siblings that live out of state--no help there.
Because of the dementia (especially), and the ALS, I cannot ever leave her here alone on my Shifts. I'm Trapped! (Don't get me wrong. My mom is the most loving, kind person. I love her dearly).
I realize I'm not providing a lot of specific details (that would require 25 pages, and I'm a slow typist as well). Also, like I said, I don't have much time for myself-- can't even get to the ALS support groups, much less go to the much, desperately, needed counseling I need. I have left a message for the ALS Clinic Social Worker (Milwaukee), and she is a great listener and ally(Sp?), but she must not have had time to call me back today. I am so beside myself right now, I guess the 4 other sibling thing just pushed me over the edge. Believe me, I would so like to be asking an important question about my mom's care, instead of ranting and raving about how I just can't take their s#@& anymore.
I am really sorry for this crazy sounding, "poor me" post. I am also not too savvy in the e-mail, and messaging department. You don't know me, but I thank you all for the support I have felt here, and all of the 1st hand, intelligent answers I have gotten from many of you.
Thanks for "listening", especially because I am not sure my overloaded self made much sense.
Peace to you all,
Laura
P.S. Could someone tell me how I can PM another member? I do have some very important questions to ask a couple of you pertaining to actual health issues regarding my mom. Thanks again.