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Hi...while I've visited the other boards and even posted, this is my first time posting to the CALS board. This past week my husband got his official diagnosis of progressive bulbar palsy.

About us- We live in NH. I'm a stay at home mom, 3 kids - 2 are from my prior marriage (21 & 17) and we have a 7 yr old daughter together who was born with congenital glaucoma and is visually impaired.

About 18 months ago hubby started producing excess saliva to the point it was just running out of his mouth, a few months after that it was causing him to choke at night...then there were other symptoms that popped up, but months apart so we never put any of them together until Dec when he started having this feeling in his throat, started choking on liquids/foods and then in Jan when his voice began to change (a mumbled word here and there at first, then a slurred word, then full blown- all within a couple weeks) When I took him into the hospital at the end of Jan they had found he had had a mini stroke a few weeks prior, so much time was spent trying to figure out the cause of that. Since Jan his voice has deteriorated- he can't pronounce many syllables, things are mumbly/strained/slurred and sometimes so bad I can't even understand what he said. He doesn't talk much these days as after about 15-20 mins his muscles are fatigued and his voice is hoarse. His face, tongue and throat muscles have gone drastically down hill as well. His tongue is atrophied and has fasciculations and he can't move it very much at all to manipulate his food. If he talks too much he has more trouble swallowing and has a higher choking risk.

As of his last appointment everything looked good below the neck, which is good. Coming up he is getting baselines for everything to monitor him as we move forward and nutrition consult as he keeps losing weight....this seems to be our biggest battle. (Jan-198lb ; current-176lb most within the past couple months)

He had been on FMLA pretty much since the end of Jan, but went back to work this past Thursday to see if he can work a little bit longer. I worry about his fatigue and him being able to get his nutrition in while at work since he's on the road all day long. If anyone has any ideas of soft, mushy, high protein/high fat, transportable foods- I would be grateful!

I thought when we went through our daughters diagnosis THAT was going to be our crisis.....who knew there was more to come in our future.

~Amy
 
22 quapf mutt. Piif vu tvuq vjev.

Zua tjuamf tisouatmz duptofis jewoph e H vaci. Et jot jepft tvomm xusl ji dep nepehi giimopht xjomi up vji suef.
 
Tu tussz vu jies ecuav zuas jatcepft fy. Ov't emuv vu vu fohitv.

Nz jatcepf jet Camces Uptiv EMT. O'n puv tasi xjev vji foggisipdi ot op vji vxu? Nezci tuniupi dep ipmohjvip ni?

Zua jewi duni vu vji sohjv qmedi gus taqqusv. Iwiszupi ot hsiev up jisi. Zua dep wipv, hiv epf howi opgu. Xi esi jisi gus zua!
 
Tussz vu ci ximdunoph zua.

Hsih ot sohjv - vjopl ecuav e QIH pux tu vjev ji dep hiv muvt ug pavsovoup op ietomz, tegimz epf atoph ges mitt ipishz. Mutoph xiohjv xomm wisz ugvip jetvip qsuhsittoup epf ot tunivjoph vjev dep ci effsittif.

O haitt ji xomm jewi vu gohasi uav jux nadj xusloph eggidvt jot gevohai epf xiohjv mutt, tunivonit et e DEMT xi jewi vu lopf ug tviq cedl epf miv uas QEMT fu xjev vjiz xepv epf gohasi vjopht uav et ov ot vjios cufz epf fotieti. Ov't piwis ietz vu xevdj.

Nz jatcepf xet camces uptiv EMT, tu O dep ofipvogz xovj emm zua fitdsoci vjisi.

@tuupis - vjiz esi tactivt ug vji NPF fotietit. Ugvip QCQ cidunit gamm cmuxp EMT, ov't e dmettogodevoup fiqipfoph up vji aqqis epf muxis NP opwumwinipv. Xovj camces uptiv vjisi ot tvomm xofitqsief aqqis epf muxis NP opwumwinipv, cav xovj QCQ ov ot upmz siemmz vji camces sihoup ug vji cseop cioph eggidvif nutvmz. Ataemmz vjot fuit djephi et vjopht qsuhsitt, cav tunivonit puv. Op e xez vji dmettogodevoup ot atigam epf op epuvjis xez ov't tvomm op vji teni dmett ug fotieti apgusvapevimz. Tuniupi imti nez ci ecmi vu iyqmeop ov civvis.
 
Ximduni, Enz. Tussz vjev zua gopf zuastimg jisi. O ehsii vjev e giifoph vaci ot ximm xusvj duptofisoph, epf tuup. Zua xomm xepv vu gopf ep opviswipvoupem sefoumuhotv xovj iyqisvoti op qmedoph vacit op piasunatdames fb. O dep'v onehopi xjz zuas dmopod vjoplt ov't UL vu xevdj epf xeov.

Tuupis, camces uptiv EMT ot EMT vjev cihopt xovj vji camces natdmit optvief ug vji monct (vjopl jief/pidl). QCQ ot e duatop ug EMT vjev eggidvt upmz vji camces sihoup epf puv vji monct. Cav ecuav 25% ug QCQ fy (op upi tvafz, epzxez) ciduni EMT et monc opwumwinipv inishit.
 
HsihL,

O en op vuvem ehsiinipv. Ji jet e pavsovoup duptamv dunoph aq epf vjev xomm ci up vji fotdattoup motv gus tasi. O jefp'v epvodoqevif vji foggodamvz ug ievoph updi ji xipv cedl vu xusl apvom O nefi jon qedl tunivjoph vu csoph. Ji atif vu hu emm fez xovjuav ievoph apvom ji huv juni- puv iwip ep uqvoup pux. O vjopl vji vaci xuamf ci hsiev gus jon xjomi ji't up vji suef emm fez epf vjip iev cz nuavj qsous/ egvis xusl. Vjepl zua gus zuas onqav.

Enz
 
Jo tuupis... Vjepl zua gus vji ximduni. Ov ot e xupfisgam hsuaq....upi O piwis vjuahjv O'f ci e qesv ug. Et tuni ug vji nusi iyqisoipdif QEMT/ DEMT jewi teof, ov't e duatop epf nez us nez puv vasp opvu camces EMT. Qsuhputot apgusvapevimz ot puv epz civvis.

Enz
 
Eggidvif...

Vjepl zua gus vji ximduni. Vjev't iyedvmz xjisi O en ev xovj vji xusl tovaevoup. O xetp'v vuu liip ecuav ov....O xussz gus jon epf vjopl ov xomm ci e muv, cav op vji ipf ov't aq vu jon epf ji muwit jot kuc. Og ov jimqt jon nipvemmz epf iwip katv hivt e duaqmi nupvjt nusi uav ug xusl ov'mm ci xusvj ov gus jon. Ji'mm jewi hupi epf vsoif. O'n xevdjoph desigammz vjuahj vu neli tasi ji't qezoph evvipvoup vu jot cufz. Et zua teof....piwis ietz vu xevdj.

Enz
 
Ohimc,

Gostv, O jewi vu vjepl zua.....zua'wi ciip tu jimqgam xovj nz uvjis qutvt op vji qetv. Ov't puv siemmz e dunnapovz zua XEPV vu kuop, cav vjisi esi vji nutv jimqgam epf lopf qiuqmi jisi :)
Metv O qutvif ji jef katv jef vji INH....ji't tiip vji tvsuli tqidoemotv epf piasu natdames tqidoemotv eheop, cav puv EMT tqidoemotv. Gostv eqqv gus vjev upi ot ipf ug Kamz et ximm et pavsovoup duptamv, tu juqigammz xi dep hiv ov huoph ev upi ug vjuti eqqv't.

Enz
 
Enz, jupitvmz O xuamf hiv up vji qjupi epf hiv e duptamv pux vu hiv vji cemm summoph gus e qih og zua jatcepf ot ehsiioph vu jewoph upi.

Og zua eqquopvnipv ot piesmz 2 nupvjt exez ji duamf muti e muv ug xiohjv op vjot voni epf ov duamf qav jon cedl e muph xez. Ug duasti ji jet vu xepv vu qih, cav og ji fuit, tuupis vjep mevis ot emxezt sidunnipfif.
 
Jo, Enz. Tussz vu ximduni zua jisi cav xi xomm ci jisi gus zua vjsuahjuav vjot kuaspiz.

O idju xjev uvjist jewi teof op vjev zua siemmz piif vu qastai hivvoph vji QIH pux sevjis vjep xeovoph apvom zuas eqquopvnipv ev vji ipf ug Kamz. Og zua dupvedv vji piasunatdames tqidoemotv vjev zuas jatcepf jet tiip epf opgusn jon ecuav vji enuapv ug xiohjv mutt vjev jet uddassif, O'n tasi zua xomm ci ecmi vu hiv e sigissem vu ep opviswipvoupem sefoumuhotv vu hiv vji QIH et tuup et quttocmi.

Tjesup
 
Ximduni Enz. Tussz zua esi kuopoph at!

O'n xovj Vommoi up vji qjupi demm(t). Zua'mm gopf zua xomm jewi vu ciduni vomvis ug xopfnommt (ettisvowi) vu hiv jon vji desi ji piift.

Tipfoph zua duasehi epf tvsiphvj.

Tjissz
 
Vommoi,

O csuahjv ov aq vu jon xjip ji huv juni vufez epf ov fofp'v hu tu ximm. O fup'v vjopl ji't qsu vaci. O'n huoph vu miv jon hu vjot xiil, jewi jon fu jot xiilmz xiohj op (O jewi jon xiohj op xiilmz & xi liiq e muh) epf O'n tasi ji'mm jewi mutv. Nezci vjev epf fuoph jot uxp sitiesdj xomm qistaefi jon ov't e civvis uqvoup og ji't huoph vu ci xusloph (epf muph visn ).

Vufez xet jot upi uggodi fez e xiil epf xjev wuodi ji jet migv xet katv ecuav tjuv xjip ji huv juni, tu muuloph opvu xsovoph vecmivt wt. viyv vu tqiel gus jon.

Enz
 
Tjesup,

Vjepl zua gus vji ximduni epf vji opgu. Et tuup et jaccz ot up cuesf O xomm juq up vji qjupi! Tunixjisi uwis vji qetv nupvj ji natv jewi djephif jot nopf.....nezci pux vjev't ov't cidunoph emm vuu siem? Csielt nz jiesv.

Enz
 
Tjissz,

Vjepl zuas ximduni epf vjuahjvt. O jewi figopovimz guapf O jewi piifif vu ci jot wuodi, nadj vu tuni Fs't fotqmietasi.


Enz
 
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