Hello,
Perhaps by posting here you will find some relief - as I am certain everyone here DOES understand you, be it a PALS or a caregiver. As long as we are all honest with ourselves and within ourselves.
True, everyone here is participating in a dialog, which often takes many turns. In reading your outpouring emotional post, I can not help but feel the only support you will get would be from here. It would be presumptious of me to try and speak about your husband. People deal with disaster in such diferent ways. Do what your heart tells you you must. Feelings of hurt and sadness most often give way to anger, if not tended to. The road ahead of you is hard; the way your husband is looking at it - you still have a road to traverse on - for him, only a dead end. Takes a very strong person to overcome that feeling of futility, or very loving. And often, time brings about changes.
To use Carol's words: "Stay strong!"
Upila
Perhaps by posting here you will find some relief - as I am certain everyone here DOES understand you, be it a PALS or a caregiver. As long as we are all honest with ourselves and within ourselves.
True, everyone here is participating in a dialog, which often takes many turns. In reading your outpouring emotional post, I can not help but feel the only support you will get would be from here. It would be presumptious of me to try and speak about your husband. People deal with disaster in such diferent ways. Do what your heart tells you you must. Feelings of hurt and sadness most often give way to anger, if not tended to. The road ahead of you is hard; the way your husband is looking at it - you still have a road to traverse on - for him, only a dead end. Takes a very strong person to overcome that feeling of futility, or very loving. And often, time brings about changes.
To use Carol's words: "Stay strong!"
Upila