Still getting shit from his stupid family!
Just got a text tonight from his sister (with the ex that molested her son). Its funny, since, part of the reason we wanted to be cautious with our children's photos on the net was because of her bad choice in men, and bad decisions to bring people near her children that ended up hurting her kids. I am protecting mine. But of course, I'm the big bad meany cause I want to protect my children from having to go through what her kids have had to go through at thier young age? My kids have already lost thier Dadda.. that should be more then enough for them to have to deal with in thier young little lives.
Anyways, here's what she just texted me:
"I have one question for you. What does it hurt for mine and Jason's mother to have a picture of her grandchildren? It's bad enough that you've hardly ever allowed her to see them or give her an actual picture of them. You can't even let her have a digital picture? It's ridiculous becca! My mom can be difficult at times and I understand but you take it too far. It's like it makes you happy to see her hurt. It was one thing for u to report me back when u did. Idc if u don't like me. I never have cared but I will not tolerate you being mean to my mom ever again. You reporting her took it one step past where it ever needed to go. You should be ashamed of yourself."
Hmmm.. where do I even begin with this text? Her mom hasn't called me in months, never even asked to see the kids the week following Jason's death, etc! So saying I won't let her see her grandkids... well, the last time she asked (back in March) she saw them. I've got alot going on, and no time to "hand hold everyone else" and deal with my own grief as well and take care of my kids! I didn't report his sister, Jason and I asked her to take the picture off, and she "de-friended" me (because, of course, this is all me just being hateful, and not a mutual decision between a husband and a wife over the protection of thier children.... ie: I'm the big bad meany), then added more pictures of our son on her fb in spite! She will drag her mom's name through the dirt, and treat her as such, and yet, by protecting my children, I "should be ashamed of myself". "It makes me happy to see her hurt?" If that was the case, then why did I bring up food to the hospital for her and her family when her husband (Jason's abuser as a child) was lying there dying? Why would I give those Christmas food baskets to her and her family, knowing that they had just lost the person who was the sole income for the house and she was guardian over Jason's sister's kids and had two other mouths to feed? I mean, it never ends with these people!
I am sooo over all this crap and being treated like a bad person! Especially for just trying to take care and protect my children!
UGH!