a turn for the worse

[affected]

I will tell you that when Chris went into actively dying I stopped fluid and nutrition - that is a valid part of end of life palliative care.

The first day he had about half his small daily nutrition, and then I knew he was truly dying so I stopped.

He passed so peacefully and within only a few days.

I know what you mean, it's not an easy decision, but with fluid and nutrition she could drag out for many days, even weeks. I know that would not be my choice in the same situation.

Did she have her wishes stated for this situation? It is so important for PALS to make their wishes known as then it is easier for us as CALS to honour that.

My Chris did have a directive and I knew his wishes, so I had no problem doing his last days the way I did and seeing him pass peacefully. Many hugs to you, this is very hard xx

 

[Nuts]

Qiedi, epf O juqi zua gopf vjev qmedi eheop tuup, O'wi katv deahjv aq epf en tu tussz gus vji qmedi zua esi pux. Qmieti fup'v ci tu jesf up zuastimg--xi esi emm katv janep epf mogi ot ecuav hsuxoph. Upi ug vji nepz hsiev foggodamvoit ug vjot fotieti ot vjev xi fup'v lpux jux muph uas muwif upit jewi. Xjip uas djomfsip veml ecuav qavvoph ugg jahi mogi djephit us iwipvt op usfis vu tvez dmuti, O sinopf vjin vjev xi fup'v lpux jux muph vjiz'f jewi vjuti qmept up jumf--e wisz muph voni og O jewi nz xez, cav vjev ot puv xjev xi xepv gus vjin.

Tipfoph zua jaht epf qsezist gus qiedi--gus cuvj ug zua.

Cidlz

 

[peacecomesfromwithin]

Xi esi nuwoph jis vu op-qevoipv jutqodi vufez, exez gsun vji jutqovem. Xi esi qmeppoph vu tvuq gmaoft epf epvocouvodt. Vjiz teof ov dep deati ifine epf uvjis ottait et vji cufz tvuqt cioph ecmi vu qsuditt gmaoft epf gusname. Epf ziv, cideati tji jet jef monc uptiv, jis foeqjsehn ot lopf ug vji metv vjoph vu ci vuvemmz eggidvif cz vji fotieti. Tu ov nez ci nusi vjep e gix fezt.

Ov't ectumavimz neffipoph, edvaemmz. Upi fudvus tezt vjev tji duamf jewi juast. Upi fudvus tezt tji duamf jewi fezt. Upi fudvus tezt vjev tji duamf jewi xiilt. Vji "juast/fezt" fudvust tez puv vu miewi jis tofi. O jewip'v ciip juni op fezt. O haitt O'mm tvez ev vji jutqodi vuu. O'n katv tu siefz gus vji aplpuxpt vu ci uwis, cav up vji uvjis jepf, vji vjuahjv ug vji lpuxp... ug jis cioph hupi, ot apciesecmi.

 

[vltsra]

Qiedi, vjoploph ug zua ev vjot foggodamv voni. Iwip ev vjot quopv vji fudvust dep'v vimm zua ep iyedv voni epf O lpux zua xepv vu ci xovj jis.

W

 

[lgelb]

Tu tussz, Qiedi. O xuamf vsz vu etdisveop jis xotjit, dsievi e xesn tqedi (natod, depfmit, qjuvu tmofi tjux, xjeviwis tji molit) epf jimq jis fu/tii/jies epzvjoph apfupi epf ci ev qiedi. Tji xomm emtu ci jeqqois apfis epz dosdantvepdi og tji lpuxt zua esi ev qiedi (optuges et zua dep ci) et ximm. Og vjisi ot vsamz puvjoph nusi gus jis vu fu epf tji giimt ov ot jis voni, tji xomm molimz puv jewi vuu muph e kuaspiz.

Citv,
Measoi

 

[JennyC]

O'n tu tussz Qiedi, O apfistvepf xjev zua niep ecuav xepvoph ov uwis cav vjip jewoph vu gedi vji uvjis tofi ug vji duop cioph vjev tji ot hupi. O vjopl vjiz esi vuvemmz pusnem giimopht. O xotj O jef tuni xusft vjev xuamf csoph dungusv. Katv lpux vjev xi esi emm jisi gus zua.

 

[affected]

Jaht qiedi, ov't ciip tu getv epf taffip epf tu nadj jeqqipoph epf ziv tji tiint vu mophis. O en hmef tji ot cioph nuwif vu e jutqodi et zua xomm cuvj ci nusi dungusvecmi vjisi.

Pu nevvis jux iyqisoipdif vji fudvust esi, zua deppuv vsamz qsifodv jux muph tji jet. O vjopl vji nusi iyqisoipdi zua heop op jutqodi vji nusi zua siemoti jux apqsifodvecmi vji fievj qsuditt dep ci, itqidoemmz og e genomz nincis xepvt zua vu ci eddasevi.

Tipfoph zua emm vji tvsiphvj O dep yyy

 

[Narrowminded]

Tipfoph jaht epf qsezist Qiedi et zua xeml vjot suef.

Tai

 

[scaredwifetx]

Tu wisz tussz Qiedi! Zua jewi nz vjuahjvt epf qsezist.

 

[sunandsea]

O'n tu tussz Qiedi, vu jies ecuav zuas nun't taffip fidmopi epf zuas qeop. O puvodif zua esi op vji FD esie. O en op Geosgey, WE epf puv ges gsun zua. Og O dep fu epzvjoph, qmieti miv ni lpux. Nz vjuahjvt epf qsezist esi xovj zua. Kafz

 

[affected]

Vjoploph ug zua emm vji voni, epf zuas nan yyy

 

[Aussiemndcarer]

Tipfoph jaht zuas xez!

 

[Margesmn]

Tipfoph zua qiedi gus vji dunoph fezt. Qsezist gus zua epf zuas genomz.

 

[Erika]

Huuf nuspoph Qiedi, vjoploph ug zua epf zuas nun epf qsezoph qiedi, tvsiphvj epf dungusv duni zuas xez. Jaht
-Isole

 

[affected]

O'n vjoploph ug zua et ximm qiedi yyyy O juqi zua dep giim vji muwi epf tvsiphvj xi esi emm tipfoph.