ShiftKicker
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- Joined
- Mar 16, 2015
- Messages
- 8,399
- Reason
- DX UMND/PLS
- Diagnosis
- 06/2015
- Country
- CA
- State
- BC
- City
- Vancouver
Chris. Thank you for your reply. It sounds like you've had a really bad run with injury. How frustrating and disheartening. I hope you will be able to get your bone reset and healing properly soon. Have you found you heal more slowly these days?
I feel exactly as you do about it being a honeymoon period. There's this spectre of years of "it will get worse" and trying to enjoy things "while I still can". Jeez.
I'm trying to approach this disease bearing in mind I'm grieving my hoped for future life and plans. I think I'm at the denial stage. Sometimes the angry stage. I feel like I'm hyper vigilant- constantly looking for symptoms that don't fit into the MND rubric, or questioning the severity of my spasticity- in the hopes I've been mistaken (and the 4 specialists who said "mnd" were mistaken too!). I even went to a shrink who sees many people with conversion disorder in the hopes I was suffering with that for some reason. As he also deals with people who have chronic and terminal diseases to help walk them through their process, he's been very helpful. However, I can't say I feel better about this in any way.
Mike, the words you use- inexplicable, dreadful, mysterious- are how I feel about this. I am very glad there's this forum to help shine a bit of light. This is the exact reason I posed my initial question. Those neuro/medical websites, though informative, are not relatable. I have NO idea what's normal, what's going on with my body and mind, what to expect next or ways to help mitigate the grind of day to day living with mnd, etc. I mine this forum for all sorts of little coping tricks, enjoy the brave humour and appreciate the honest encouragement from all the members. Many people have stated this, but it really is true the doctors don't know as much as the forum members. Thank the stars for this resource. If I only had my neurologist to depend on for information and reassurance, I'd be totally lost and more terrified than I am now.
I feel exactly as you do about it being a honeymoon period. There's this spectre of years of "it will get worse" and trying to enjoy things "while I still can". Jeez.
I'm trying to approach this disease bearing in mind I'm grieving my hoped for future life and plans. I think I'm at the denial stage. Sometimes the angry stage. I feel like I'm hyper vigilant- constantly looking for symptoms that don't fit into the MND rubric, or questioning the severity of my spasticity- in the hopes I've been mistaken (and the 4 specialists who said "mnd" were mistaken too!). I even went to a shrink who sees many people with conversion disorder in the hopes I was suffering with that for some reason. As he also deals with people who have chronic and terminal diseases to help walk them through their process, he's been very helpful. However, I can't say I feel better about this in any way.
Mike, the words you use- inexplicable, dreadful, mysterious- are how I feel about this. I am very glad there's this forum to help shine a bit of light. This is the exact reason I posed my initial question. Those neuro/medical websites, though informative, are not relatable. I have NO idea what's normal, what's going on with my body and mind, what to expect next or ways to help mitigate the grind of day to day living with mnd, etc. I mine this forum for all sorts of little coping tricks, enjoy the brave humour and appreciate the honest encouragement from all the members. Many people have stated this, but it really is true the doctors don't know as much as the forum members. Thank the stars for this resource. If I only had my neurologist to depend on for information and reassurance, I'd be totally lost and more terrified than I am now.