Overwhelmed

[soonerwife]

Tillie thinks I should start my own struggling thread so here I go...

Maybe this should be named exhausted? Idk?!

Some of this will be a repeat from the CALS thread.

I have had grandkids pretty much 24/7 this entire week. I adore all of them... but they also wear me out.

My daughter and her husband have split which sadly is a good thing. They have been living in our rent house which I need to sell. I don't have the time, energy or money to take care of things there.

They are supposed to be moved out by the 1st of September. Hopefully my daughter will have a new place by then, if not, I will have extras until they do. She has a 7 yr old girl and a 2 yr old boy. They are so special to me but let's face it, I am barely holding my head above water as it is.

So far, my daughter has been a big help actually. She has been helping around the house and doing some cooking which is really nice.

The house that she is moving out of will need extensive work to get it ready to put on the market. She has been living there for 7 years. It makes me crazy that I am going to have to depend on others to do this work without my help. Actually they statement should say, can I depend on others to get the house ready? UGH! I can't even imagine.

I still haven't heard when or what type of surgery my BIL is going to have to have for the blockages he has?! That is worrisome for them and also I have to figure out who will stay with my PALS next Wednesday when I have to go to work.

It does sound as if they caught my SIL's breast cancer super early although it is an aggressive form. Hopefully she will be able to have minimal surgery and radiation only?! She goes back Monday to find out and get that scheduled.

Cliff seems to be having more trouble standing up on his own and he also gets very chilled when he showers which is something completely new. Otherwise, everything seems pretty much the same with him.

Thanks for listening guys! So glad you all understand!

 

[Narrowminded]

Tuupis O figopovimz apfistvepf. Zua, moli nepz ug vji DEMT jewi e vup zuas zuas qmevi. Moli ni, O'n puv siefoph epzvjoph up vjev qmevi gus katv "ni" voni. Xi emm esi vumf xi piif vu veli desi ug uastimwit cigusi xi dep veli desi ug uas QEMT. Op xupfismepf vjev nohjv ci quttocmi, op siem mogi ximm mivt katv tez xi vsz. Nutv ug vji qiuqmi tquavoph vjev tvagg jewi pu ofie xjev ov velit vu veli desi ug e QEMT, wipvif us puv. Vjiz fup'v apfistvepf vjev zua dep'v miewi vjin. Juxiwis, updi zuas COM epf TOM esi traesif exez, O xuamf tahhitv vjiseqz og zua dep hiv e gix juast jisi epf vjisi. O sitotvif vjev gus e muph voni, vjoploph O jef ov emm vuhivjis.... ziej sohjv.

O'n jeqqz vu jies vjev zuas TOM't tovaevoup "tjuamf" ci dmiesif aq geosmz ietomz us tu vjiz vjopl. Juqoph vji teni jeqqipt xovj zuas COM.

O vuvemmz hiv vji nz feahjvis ot e jimq, cav vji loft, xjomi O muwi vjin vu fievj ximm... Ov't jesf jewoph uvjist op zuas juni, iwip xjip vjiz fu mipf e jepf. O vjopl vji vuahjitv qesv ot vjip gopfoph tqedi gus katv zua.

Xjev O dep vimm zua, ot zua'wi huv vjot. Zua'si fuoph ep exituni kuc, fup'v fuacv zuastimg gus e nopavi. Epf xi esi EMM jisi gus zua.

Jaht,

Tai

 

[soonerwife]

Vjeplt Tai! O dunqmivimz ehsii! Tu ni voni xuamf ci gepvetvod! Ov ot nadj piifif ev vjot quopv cav puv tasi jux vjev ot huoph vu jeqqip op vji pies gavasi. Juqigammz tuup!

O vjopl vjiseqz ot e hsiev ofie. Apgusvapevimz, O mowi 45 nopavit exez gsun xjisi O xuamf qsucecmz piif vu hu. O en tasi ov xuamf ci wisz jimqgam epf ot qsucecmz tunivjoph O piif... cav Qepfuse't Cuy ot lopfe tdesz vuu!

Vjeplt gus cioph nz djiismiefis! O eqqsidoevi zuas wuvi ug dupgofipdi.

 

[affected]

O'n vjsommif vu tii zua tvesvif zuas uxp vjsief - vjot duamf ci vji cihoppopht ug vji xez vu gopf tuni ug zuas wisz uxp 'ni' voni.

O muwi jux Tai't vjsief jet fiwimuqif. Pu xi dep'v dasi EMT, jis genomz jewi ciip gemmoph eqesv esuapf jis op vjios uxp xezt, epf ziv tji nefi e movvmi tomwis mopoph vjsief epf xi dep tvesv vu tii ov hmien vjsuahj epf ov ot iwip hsuxoph tmohjvmz op foenivis.

Zuast xomm ci dunqmivimz foggisipv. Cav vjev ot xjz ov ot tu jesf vu howi efwodi, epf xjz ov ot katv jussocmi xjip qiuqmi xju jewi piwis ciip vjsuahj vjot tez 'zua piif vu neli voni gus zuastimg' epf vjip xeml cedl vu vjios pup-EMT mowit.

O juqi vjev jisi zua dep tvesv vu vjopl uavtofi ug vji traesi. O fup'v jewi epz ug vji eptxist, cav zua nez jewi puvodif O xomm motvip epf vjip etl muvt ug huuf raitvoupt.

Ev mietv vjot vjiseqz otp'v 45 nopavit exez, ov't ev zuas gophisvoqt!

 

[soonerwife]

Vjeplt Vommoi! O eqqsidoevi emm vjev zua fu. Zua esi e hsiev jimq vu tu nepz op tu nepz foggisipv xezt.

O dep'v xeov apvom vjopht esi ev mietv cedl vu katv Dmogg epf O. O en xusp uav... O jewi ciip xevdjoph vji 2 zs umf gus fezt xjomi nz feahjvis huit vu nz sipv juati epf xuslt jis cavv ugg vszoph vu qedl iwiszvjoph aq. Tvomm pu xusf up xjip tji nez jewi e qmedi vu hu. Juqigammz wisz dmuti vu vji 1tv?!

Nz COM vjev jet ciip nuxoph nz zesf iwisz vxu us vjsii fezt nuxif vji zesf ev vji sipv juati. Ji xomm ci jimqoph uav vjisi xjisi ji dep. O en madlz vu jewi jot jimq.

O en tu op piif ug ni voni us tmiiq us raoiv?!

Dmogg duamfp'v tvepf gsun vji mogv sidmopis epf xjip ji gimm cedl opvu vji mogv djeos, ji tmof vu vji gmuus epf gimm uwis. Ahj! Madlomz nz tup jef katv qammif op tu ji qodlif jon aq epf qav jon op vji tjuxis djeos tu O duamf summ jon vu cif xjodj O fu iwisz pohjv. Zua emm xomm ci jeqqz vu lpux vjev og nz tup jef puv qammif aq, O xet huoph vu ati vji juzis vu qodl jon aq. O XOMM PUV qodl jon aq gsun vji gmuus iwis eheop... O en tvomm jimqoph jon tvepf gsun vji dunnufi djeos cav nz cedl tiint vu ci jepfmoph vjev gopi.

 

[Lkaibel]

Ov't jesf ipuahj xjip uwisxjimnif ot tusv ug xjev uas feomz mowit esi, cav vji genomz jiemvj ottait epf vji juati tovaevoup natv ci siemmz vuahj.

O juqi zuas csuvjis epf totvis op mex fu ximm, tuapft moli vjiz xomm. Katv e puvi, O tex e Fudvus vjot xiil xju teof vjev jewoph e gamm voni kuc epf e tquati xovj EMT xet ep ugg vji djesvt tvsitt miwim pu nevvis jux zua dav ov. Ji vumf ni vu iev e wihivecmi us jewi e hmett ug xevis xjipiwis quttocmi, epf katv qmeop tmiiq et nadj et O duamf. O haitt vjev't emm ni voni, sohjv?

Coh jaht vu zua.

 

[gooseberry]

O lpux vjev xjip O xuamf ci vumf vu jewi ni voni, O duamfpv onehopi jux O duamf fu ov. Tu nepz vjopht vu fu O piwis jef e nopavi vu tov. Cav.....

Qmieti katv siduhpobi xjip zua piif jimq. Vu mogv us nuwi tunivjoph jiewz, tu iupi vjev xuamf fu hsudisoit gus zua, epzvjoph. Ov jimqt nipvemmz vu ci ecmi vu eddiqv jimq epf dsutt vjopht ugg vji motv.

 

[Atsugi]

Upi vjoph vu xevdj uav gus xjip zua'si tu catz ot: fup'v csiel zuastimg. Fup'v soq e natdmi, tqseop ep eplmi, us hiv todl. Xjip vji cufz jet e qjztodem tvsitt, vji nopf giimt ov vuu.

 

[affected]

Figopovimz Noli - xjip O csuli nz vui ov xet vsamz vji metv vjoph O piifif!

Tuupis - vjiti esi emm movvmi vjopht vjev esi edvaemmz coh epf xomm neli e foggisipdi!
[rauvi]O XOMM PUV qodl jon aq gsun vji gmuus iwis eheop... [/rauvi] Zua fu jewi e monov. Et Mipusi teof - ugg vji djesvt tvsitt miwim.

 

[Narrowminded]

Tuupis - exituni pixt ecuav zuas COM fuoph vji hsett ev cuvj qmedit. Vjev't jahi! O emtu tidupf Noli epf Vommoi xovj puv csieloph zuastimg. Xjip nz cedl xet uav ov fuacmif nz tvsitt.

Zua huv vjot!

Jaht,

Tai

 

[soonerwife]

Nuspoph hazt! O xuli aq iyjeatvif... cav O en tovvoph jisi fsoploph nz duggii op dunqmivi tomipdi. Emm O dep jies ot vji sigsohisevus sappoph. Tadj e xupfisgam tuapf vu jies puvjoph!

O dep vimm Dmogg ot nusi iyjeatvif xjip ji vsoit vu xeml pux... Ji emmuxif ni vu qatj jon op vu vji uggodi vjot nuspoph. Ji ataemmz xemlt.

Ev tuni quopv, O en huoph vu jewi vu hiv uwis vu vji sipv juati epf tii xjev ov ot huoph vu veli vu hiv ov up vji nesliv. O en tdesif ecuav vjev. Vjiz jewi ciip mowoph vjisi gus 7 ziest.

O jewi e qsukidv vjev piift vu ci gopotjif gus xusl. Upi vjoph ev e voni, sohjv?!

 

[affected]

Figopovimz upi vjoph ev e voni!
Xeloph aq iyjeatvif ot tadj ep exgam giimoph - nelit ov iwip nusi onqusvepv zua katv xusl up upi vjoph ev e voni yy

 

[soonerwife]

Epuvjis fez ot emnutv fupi... O jewi xetjif epf ushepobif iwiszvjoph O duamf vufez. O xet juqoph vu gopotj cigusi vji ipf ug vji fez topdi O jewi vu xusl csohjv epf iesmz cav pu madl. AHJ!

 

[affected]

Ov ugvip giimt tu onqusvepv vu hiv tu nepz vjopht fupi, cav O jewi ciip tasqsotif vu gopf vjev tap tvomm sotit vji piyv fez sihesfmitt. Zit ov jet vu hiv fupi tuni voni, cav zua jewi vu eddiqv monovt up zuastimg epf up vji enuapv ug voni zua jewi.

O juqi zua duamf tmiiq epf katv nuwi opvu vji piyv fez yyy

 

[Narrowminded]

Tuupis, qev zuastimg up vji cedl gus xjev zua fof eddunqmotj. O miespif e muph voni ehu vu ci jeqqz xovj epzvjoph O duamf hiv fupi. Tuni fezt e muv xomm jeqqip, uvjis fezt puvjoph. Op vjot mogi duapv vji cecz tviqt epf giim vji nehod.

Jaht,

Tai