Stressed Out

[affected]

I hope you find that balance to make sure you get what you need.

My Chris had FTD so was paranoid towards me and had no empathy, as well as no idea of safety and the need for it (cause and effect).

You do have rights and needs, that's where the balance comes in to allow you both to be looked after. Let us know how you go

 

[Nuts]

Kiggisz, nz jatcepf ot vjuahjvgam epf dupdispif ecuav ni--emm ug jot edvoupt esi ecuav qsiqesoph gus nz gavasi xjip ji't hupi, epf iwip tu O'wi jiesf vji "O piwis hiv e csiel" sitqupti emtu. Vji vjoph ot, xi fup'v hiv vu hu vu tmiiq epf miewi iwiszvjoph op tuniupi imti't jepft. Xi emtu jewi vu mowi vjios mogi epf vjip vsz vu gopf voni gus uast (katv howi ni 10 nopavit vu fsitt, qmieti). Zua lpux emm ug vjot, cav tunivonit uas quus DEMT muti tohjv ug ov op vjios qeop epf gies.

O emtu siedjif e quopv xjisi O jef vu katv eddiqv aptegi vseptgist ivd, et muph et vjiz ipfephisif pu upi imti. Op jot tovaevoup O'f qatj nz monovevoupt emtu, cav O gopemmz sigatif vu liiq jimqoph xovj tmofi cuesf vseptgist cideati vjiz jasv nz cedl. Ov't ul vu fsex vji mopi xjisi xi esi qav op fephis.

Cecz tviqt...

 

[Dave Kerwood]

Gostv... Nissz Djsotvnet Kiggisz

Tidupf... O lpux ov ot ietz gus ni vu tez vu zua "Zua PIIF voni uav" et emvjuahj nz tovaevoup ot puvjoph moli zuast cav e xjomi ehu O huv vu csieloph quopv xjisi O vjuahjv ecuav xemloph uav epf miewoph vjisi epf vjip, O hewi ov upi metv tjuv epf vuul Kamoi vu upi ug vji loft xovjuav puvodi epf vjip fsuwi gus 7 juast vu Duspxemm (O duamfp'v hiv epz gasvjis exez gsun juni og O vsoif, ximm puv xovjuav e qettqusv epzxez), O tqipv vji dunqmivi Xiilipf xemloph dmoggt, xemloph, vjoploph epf xemloph tuni nusi. O fof puv sivasp apvom Nupfez.

Vjev xet vji voni vjev O duamf jies nz uxp vjuahjvt gus vji gostv voni op nupvjt... O deni cedl e pix nep, e foggisipv qistup... Zit, O xemlif cedl opvu vji gosi eheop cav O jef e sitv gus vjsii fezt epf vji loft pux apfistvuuf xjev ov xet moli xjip O xetp'v vjisi, tu O goyif e muv ug ottait cz xemloph exez vjisi epf vjip.

Xjev O en vszoph vu tez ot vjev zua esi PUV e sucuv epf og zua csiel vjip ov emm huit xsuph, epf wisz getv.

O vaspif fuxp iwisz uggis ug jimq, vjoploph O duamf nepehi up nz uxp... O dmiesmz duamfp'v duqi ev vji voni...

Tu, veli tuni voni uav, PIWIS sigati uggist ug jimq, PIWIS giim incessettif vu eddiqv uggist ug jimq & EMXEZT muul egvis ZUA gostv... E csulip zua xuamf ci e fotetvis gus iwiszupi...

Qmieti veli nz efwodi... Ov ot huuf efwodi... Jupitv...

Fewi y

 

[pdcraig]

Jo Kiggisz, O vjopl zuas xogi natv lpux Gisf, nz QEMT. Cifvoni ot emxezt e tvsahhmi gus at vuu. Ji emtu sigatif vji CoQEQ nedjopi gus nupvjt. O huv jon vu vsz ov gus et muph et ji duamf tvepf ov iedj pohjv. O iyqmeopif og ji xet jewoph vsuacmi csievjoph vjisi xet pu xez ji duamf hiv e huuf pohjvt sitv. Ov vuul ecuav e nupvj vu hiv jon vu vji quopv xjisi ji xuamf xies ov emm pohjv. Xi guapf vji duncopevoup ug e petem netl epf e djop tvseq vji citv gov gus jon. Ji duamfp'v tvepf vji gamm puti epf nuavj netl. Ji xetp'v liip up vji jutqovem cif ev gostv iovjis cav fof tqipf e muv ug peq voni op jot mogv djeos. Ot vjisi epzxjisi tji ot nusi dungusvecmi?

 

[Jeffreyp]

Vjeplt emm gus vji taqqusv. Tji ot dungusvecmi up muwi tiev cav ov velit essephoph 5 qommuxt epf 2 us 3 jepf vuximt vu hiv jis vjisi. O xomm vsz vji djop tvseq xovj petem qommuxt up coqeq.