Zina, I am so sorry about what you are going through. I wish I had been following this forum more closely for the past few weeks. My mom has a trach and uses a ventilator 24 hours a day, and we live at home together. There are some steps that you will need to take in order to get your husband discharged from the hospital with a ventilator. If your insurance allows (or is he on Medicare yet?), try to get transferred to a Long-term Assisted Care facility (LTAC). These hospitals specialize in critical care for extended periods of time, and therapy is part of the treatment plan. My mom was in an LTAC for about a month, and she saw occupational, physical, and speech therapists every weekday. Mom is not only able to drink but also to eat small amounts of food in spite of her trach. Our speech therapist taught me how to do this. She does not normally speak out loud, but it is possible when necessary. There is also a device called a Passy-Muir Valve (PMV) that can help with speech, but my mom doesn't like it.
Our first choice LTAC rejected my mom, and they gave us a convoluted story (different from what they told the hospital caseworker who was trying to get my mom transferred to the LTAC) about the reason. I finally figured out that the *real* reason they blocked my mom was that they didn't want to mess up their 100% success rate statistics for vent weaning. Don't be too talkative when you deal with admissions staff at an LTAC because they are very concerned about their statistics. Nevermind that my mom wasn't even a candidate for vent weaning. But the second one turned out to be perfect for us. If you go the LTAC route, try to find one that has a strong respiratory therapy program.
Now, the LTAC will not discharge your husband until they are assured that a solid outpatient plan is in place. The reason for this is because of hospital liability--they simply cannot discharge a vent-dependent patient without certain provisions in place. We had to get a home inspection done to ensure that our electric wiring is properly functioning, and they also did an evaluation of my mom's living space for safety issues. Also, they wouldn't let me take my mom home without assistance--we have to maintain part-time private duty nursing assistance. We have a nurse at night while I sleep, plus sometimes during the day so that I can get out of the house sometimes. At the LTAC, you will be trained on every aspect of ventilator/trach care, including suctioning, how to operate the machine, and how to clean the trach. It is a little overwhelming at first, but after a month, everything becomes "old hat." Again, they will not discharge your husband until you have been trained, and you must also prove that your nurses have been trained. Do not--under any circumstances--allow a Certified Nurse Assistant to do ventilator/trach/medication care. We ran into this problem with our first home health care agency when they lied to us about the skill level of their in-home sitters. My mom almost died as a result, but I was able to resuscitate her while the CNA watched in bewilderment. Of course, your situation is different because your husband is mobile, whereas my mom cannot move her legs or arms anymore. The requirements for discharge from an LTAC might be different in your case.
I am leery of nursing homes for ventilator patients. There are only 7 in the entire state of Texas that accept vent patients, and they have a limited number of spaces. Home is so much better because we have my mom's personal belongings all around her, and she can get assistance whenever she needs it, rather than waiting for someone to come around to check on her. Sometimes it's the best option, but I think of it as a "last resort."
More about your husband's diagnosis: Have you been to an ALS clinic? Dr. Stanley Appel is right there in Houston, and maybe you could get your neurologist to pull some strings and get your husband in there quickly. Dr. Appel is an expert in the field of Motor Neuron Disease, and he might have answers where others don't. Also, check out this link:
http://www.sciencedirect.com/scienc...serid=10&md5=e30dd498928d7ba1d431ad5d7d5b18c8
See if you can access the article somewhere. If you are at a hospital in Houston, maybe you can swing by a college library in the area to view the article on a computer there. Most university libraries have online subscriptions to journals, including medical journals.
Good luck, and keep us posted on how things are going.