nspaul
New member
- Joined
- Jan 12, 2008
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- 5
- Reason
- CALS
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- CA
- State
- Nova Scotia
- City
- Amherst
Hi Jdale 949
Hi,
My father was recently diagnosed and you can check my posts to get the full story. Palliative care was into the house this week asking about a feeding tube. He is 76 and does not want one. I'm also concerned with this but respect his decision. I was told that they can be given meds that will ease the panic of not getting a breath and that they pass on very peacfully. Something I hate to think about but know it is coming. Sometimes I wish for my fathers sake it somes sooner than later. He has really suffered a loss in quality of life from what he was used to and I remember converstaions with him that he never wanted to be this way and was a big fear of his. How ironic life is. I live away from my parents and am a school teacher with two young boys as well. It has been very difficult over the past 2 months wondering if I should leave and help care for him or wait some time. I just happened to read your latest post. It doesn't seem that a cure is going to save them so I will pray that their passing is peaceful. I know that my turn to say goodbye is coming and I'll do everything so they do not suffer. My sympathies are with you and your family. May your faith be with you in this crucial moment.
Paul
Hi,
My father was recently diagnosed and you can check my posts to get the full story. Palliative care was into the house this week asking about a feeding tube. He is 76 and does not want one. I'm also concerned with this but respect his decision. I was told that they can be given meds that will ease the panic of not getting a breath and that they pass on very peacfully. Something I hate to think about but know it is coming. Sometimes I wish for my fathers sake it somes sooner than later. He has really suffered a loss in quality of life from what he was used to and I remember converstaions with him that he never wanted to be this way and was a big fear of his. How ironic life is. I live away from my parents and am a school teacher with two young boys as well. It has been very difficult over the past 2 months wondering if I should leave and help care for him or wait some time. I just happened to read your latest post. It doesn't seem that a cure is going to save them so I will pray that their passing is peaceful. I know that my turn to say goodbye is coming and I'll do everything so they do not suffer. My sympathies are with you and your family. May your faith be with you in this crucial moment.
Paul