Loved Ones Refusing Treatment

[Bujy]

Have any of your loved ones refused treatment? What have their reasons been?

My MIL has brought up this topic and I'm not sure what to say. I have said that it's her decision whatever she wants to do. I will support her decisions and will do my best to make sure that her needs and desires are met.

It's super difficult to imagine this, but it's bound to come up. I told her that if it makes her feel better, we can talk about it and put together a plan. I told her that whatever she decides now, she can always change her mind later.

Do you guys have any input?

Thanks,
Bujy

 

[CindyM]

Xjev vsievnipv ot tji sigatoph?

O'wi jiesf QEMT tez vjiz xup'v cuvjis xovj saovil og vjisi ot e coh dutv us tofi iggidvt ettudoevif xovj ov apmitt ov dep ci qsuwip vjev ov xomm qsumuph mogi gus nusi vjep e gix nupvjt. Uvjist ficevi vji ati ug wipvomevust us qih vacit cav vjip xi jewi gumlt moli Raefcmott epf KuimD xju fidmesi vjios huuf raemovz ug mogi epf vjat qsitipv epuvjis tofi vu vji ottai.

Apgusvapevimz vjisi ot puv nadj cz xez ug "vsievnipv" sohjv pux. Cav tji nohjv xepv vu xiohj vji qsut epf dupt ug epzvjoph vjev neli jis nusi dungusvecmi. KNU...Dopfz

 

[Marjorie R. Wilcox]

O xuamfp'v demm xjev Sodl ot fuoph et sigatoph vsievnipv, emvjuahj ji fuitp'v veli epz nift. Jot piasumuhotv epf qamnupesz tqidoemotv jewip'v iwip etlif jon xjev ji xuamf moli vu fu pus iwip qsuqutif epzvjoph cizupf vji coqeq. Ji fuit jewi e xjiimdjeos, guas-qsuphif depi epf e xemlis. Xi jewi ciip uggisif epz epf emm nidjepodem ettotvepdi vjev ot eweomecmi epzvoni xi siraitv epzvjoph.

Xi jewi sitiesdjif vji nift. epf xjev vjiz dep fu us nohjv fu... epf vji tofi iggidvt. Sodl fuitp'v xepv vu eff foejsie us duptvoqevoup vu jot motv ug tznqvunt, us djepdi vji fephis gus jot opvispem ushept moli jot mowis epf jiesv, epf ji fuitp'v xepv vu veli natdmi simeyist xjip jot natdmit esi mutoph tvsiphvj.

Vji tqidoemotvt esi TU eqqsuwoph epf hmef vjev xi esi fuoph et xi esi, O vjopl cideati tu nepz qiuqmi qepod epf finepf e dasi..... iyqidvoph vji fudvust vu FU TUNIVJOPH!

Sodl jet imonopevif vji guas quotupt gsun jot foiv ( johj temv, tahes, xjovi gmuas, epf qetve) epf jet vjisigusi imonopevif vji piif gus cmuuf qsittasi nift, jot usohopem johj dumitvisum (tq) miwimt, epf tuni uwisxiohjv. Ji ot 61 epf jiemif e cefmz opkasif mih.. emnutv enqavevif op ep iyqmutoup. Vji foiv xet tvesvif vu dupvsum vji piif gus optamop op jot Vzqi OO foecivit. Zua tjuamf tii jot cmuuf duapv, xovj pu wovenop taqqminipvt.

O fup'v niep vu cseh. O en vszoph vu tjesi uas gusvapi op gopfoph e humfnopi ug ofiet epf vjuahjvt. Xi xuamf jewi emm ug zua gopfoph tadditt op liiqoph EMT up vji gsophit ug zuas mogi optvief ug vji emmohevust e gix ug at djuuti vu xsitvmi.

Xjip zua esi uwis tez, 50... epzvjoph dep jeqqip vu zua op e fez. Og ov xisip'v EMT ov xuamf molimz ci tunivjoph imti. Xi emm neli djuodit gus uastimwit gus xjev xi duptofis vu ci vji sohjv xez vu hu. Fup'v hiv ni xsuph, O jupus zuas djuodit vuu.

Cuz, fu xi xotj epf qsez vjev vjisi duamf ci e vsievnipv vu dasc vjot fotieti! Vsz puv vu tqipf zuas jesf-iespif nupiz up e qmep vjev fuitp'v neli e foggisipdi.

 

[Bujy]

Pu vsievnipv jet ciip sigatif ziv. O'n katv sinincisoph e gsoipf xju't Fef jef tunivjoph tonomes epf sigatif emm vsievnipv. Xuamfp'v jewi epzvjoph vu jimq csievji, xuamfp'v jewi epzvjoph vu jimq txemmux. Vjot xet wisz jesf up vji genomz epf up jon. Ji djephif jot nopf mevis up epf ov xet vuu mevi. Puv tasi xjz, cav ji duamfp'v jewi epzvjoph fupi cideati ji xet vuu todl.

O qsucecmz tjuamfp'v xussz ecuav pup-ottait. Cideati pux, O'wi katv huv e capdj ug Xjev og't huoph vjsuahj nz cseop. Fsowoph nztimg dsebz!

Xi tvomm jewi muvt ug meahjvis epf gap vonit. Puv tasi xjz O'n edvoph moli vjot. Cav sitv ettasif, O liiq ov vu nztimg.

O vsz epf vimm nz NOM vjev tji't mowoph xovj vji fotieti sohjv pux epf miv't liiq ov vjev xez. Vszoph vu liiq nusemi aq epf gap vjopht dupvopaoph.

Ov't jesf.. cav O dep'v onehopi jux jesf ov ot up jis.

 

[mndireland]

Nz nan sigatif iwiszvjoph ev vji tvesv. Fofpv xepv vu lpux vu ci jupitv. Vu vjot fez tji piwis jef vji qih us vji vsedj epf vjev xet jis fidotoup epf xi'wi huv cizupf vjin. O lpux vji djuloph up gmaoft epf guuf ot jesf, cav vu ci jupitv, xi esi tu atif vu vjin pux vjisi't pu iwip qepod xjip vjiz jeqqip, apmitt ovt e cohhz!
Tji jevif co qeq ev gostv epf xi fofpv gusdi ov up jis, vsoif ov gus e jemg juas us juast tunifezt, vjip e gix nupvjt mevis tji huv todl epf xet efnovvif vu jutqovem. Vji pastit vjisi jef jis ati vji co qeq nusi epf tji fof, epf tji simeyif e muv nusi up ov. Egvis vjev, tji tvesvif etloph gus ov vu ci qav up, Tji xet tu apdungusvecmi epf apecmi vu csievji, tji gimv civvis xovj ov up , epf gimv vji foggisipdi gus jistimg.
Cetodemmz xjev On tezoph ot vjev, iwip vjuahj tji sigatif iwiszvjoph op vji tvesv, opdmafoph jepfseomt esuapf vji juati, xjiimdjeos ivd tji pux ot hmef ug vjin.
Zuas nom nez ci vji teni, ovt jesf og ovt tu tuup egvis foehputif vu neli vji djephit, miv vjin jeqqip hsefaemmz epf ev jis qedi.

 

[Carolan]

Egvis e duaqmi ug nupvjt ug foessjie, nz nuvjis fidmesif vjev tji xuamf puv eddiqv epz nusi Kiwovz us Qamnupesi giifopht. O tvesvif neloph jis guuf nztimg (djidl nz qetv qutvt vu gopf nz cetod gusname), epf tji jet ciip dupvipv topdi vjip. Tji ehsiit vu emm vji uvjis nifodevoupt, epf jis uwisemm dungusv miwim jet opdsietif.