Tomswife
Senior member
- Joined
- Aug 22, 2022
- Messages
- 689
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 08/2022
- Country
- US
- State
- NJ
- City
- Livingston
My daughter and I met with the Hospice intake nurse. We have decided not ti use hospice at this time. We would lose our ability to use our specialists- neurologist, gastroenterologist, pulmonologist.
It was also a confusing conversation because the nurse was telling us we can still use the specialists at Summit Health. You can if your need is outside the reason you are in hospice. For example. You break your arm. Yes you can use physicians outside of hospice to care for your arm. But if the need for specialists is related to ALS. No. But the nurse did not tell us that. I called another firm after the nurse left.
The sad thing is that no one knows what they are talking about. No one fully understands their job. They should. But they dont.
So we will continue on. As we have. With me driving the ALS bus, trying to care for Tom.
It was also a confusing conversation because the nurse was telling us we can still use the specialists at Summit Health. You can if your need is outside the reason you are in hospice. For example. You break your arm. Yes you can use physicians outside of hospice to care for your arm. But if the need for specialists is related to ALS. No. But the nurse did not tell us that. I called another firm after the nurse left.
The sad thing is that no one knows what they are talking about. No one fully understands their job. They should. But they dont.
So we will continue on. As we have. With me driving the ALS bus, trying to care for Tom.