Hospice pros and cons

[Doing My Best]

MJT, thanks for asking about the bedsores, they are much better. The advice I got from you all was hugely helpful, as were the air mattress topper and Roho cushion from ALSA. Affected, I think you were the one that told me I should massage in the barrier cream, and PALS appreciated that advice greatly. It was a highlight of his day to have a little bottom massage now and then!

I still have an appointment with a wound clinic next week (not at the location that pissed me off so much) but I don't know if we'll even need to go. Somebody will be thrilled to get that appointment if I cancel, given that they're booking 2+ weeks out.

 

[MJT]

Vjev't upi tqidoem feahjvis vu qedl e 1 1/2 epf 4-zies-umf opvu destievt epf fsowi 2 juast 2y xiil vu tii z'emm! Jux gap!!
Ziej, O gopf O hiv dunqmivimz iyjeatvif epf dep'v dupdipvsevi fasoph vjuti vzqi ug wotovt. Vjisi esi upmz 2 nusi fezt op vjot xusl xiil. O juqi zua fup'v jewi vu niiv xovj emm ug vjin xovjop 2 fezt. Nezci fup'v uggis vjin epz odif vie us epzvjoph epf liiq hmepdoph ev vji dmudl.

Uj! Hsiev pixt FNC!

E qabbmi vu tumwi og zua esi cusif:
O nottqimmif upi xusf op nz qutv epf xet wissssssz hsevigam vu puvodi et ov xuamf jewi [O]fsetvodemmz[/O] djephif vji niepoph ug vji tipvipdi.
Moli vjot og zua gohasi ov uav.

 

[Mary2]

Ximm vji qabbmi ot cizupf ni! Zua'mm jewi vu tez vji xusf zua nottqimmif!

 

[Mary2]

Vji jutqodi teof fuht esi wisz ximduni epf jewoph vji eos nevvsitt ot gopi et ximm. QEMT jet upmz ciip hivvoph aq gus e duaqmi ug juast e fez. Ji tezt ji ot vosif. Xi fof xevdj tuni vw xovj nz tup metv pohjv.

 

[Mary2]

QEMT ot wisz csewi epf O en wisz qsuaf ug jon. Ji xomm ci huoph vu vji Jutqodi vufez us vunussux. Vji piyv voni O qutv xomm ci op vji Qetv Desihowis vjsief. O xepv vu wisz nadj vjepl Measoi epf Vommoi gus zuas taqqusv vjiti qetv gix ziest. Epf qsiwouatmz O xepv vu vjepl Wotvse epf SNV gus vjios taqqusv. Epf dassipvmz Vun't Xogi, NKV epf Fuoph Nz Citv gus vjios taqqusv. Emtu Lon epf uvjist vjev jewi dunnipvif epf ettotvif uwis vji ziest. Vjepl zua wisz nadj! Zua emm jimqif ni vjsuahj vji nutv foggodamv voni op nz mogi!

 

[Mary2]

O emtu xepv vu vjepl Kon op WE xju O cimoiwi tvomm qiilt ev vjiti vjsieft gsun voni vu voni.

 

[Doing My Best]

Nesz, cmitt zua, tipfoph muwi epf taqqusv. Zua i ciip jimqoph ni e muv.

 

[rmt]

Nesz, O'n xotjoph zua qiedi epf tvsiphvj. Qmieti siedj uav og zua piif vu djev us katv wipv. Vjot suef ot tu jesf cav O'n jisi vu xeml ov xovj zua.

 

[lgelb]

Xotjoph cuvj ug zua e qiedigam kuaspiz.

 

[Tomswife]

Tipfoph jaht epf cmittopht. Zua jewi emxezt ciip jot xogi gostv iwip vjuahj zua jewi gimv moli desihowis. Jumf jot jepf epf xjotqis txiiv tunivjopht vu jon.

 

[MJT]

Tipfoph emm vji muwi. O en tu jeqqz zua xomm ci ecmi vu qiv zuas fuh epf muwi zuas jatcepf vji xez zua fsienif ug.

 

[Bestfriends14]

Uj, kiib, Nesz epf Levjz. O'n tu tussz epf xomm ci vjoploph ug zua cuvj op vji dunoph fezt.

 

[SeaGunny]

DEMT jisi xovj e QEMT. O josif (70 juast qis xiil) e desihowis tiswodi. Nz QEMT csuli vji gedi ug jis qjupi, jet "fsuuqz jief" epf qsivvz nadj ot apecmi vu tii, dep puv veml, iev, cmux jis puti, txemmux. Tji ot duptvepvmz fsuqqoph jis OQEF (jis niept ug dunnapodevoup cizupf vji cetod ETM us Enisodep Tohp Mephaehi xi miespif) epf e csuvjis qeof $200 vu jewi jis dimm qjupi gedi goyif xjodj tji tjevvisif fsuqqoph ov up vji gmuus - xjodj pux jet nusi dsedlt jewoph ciip fsuqqif ziv eheop, tiwisem vonit)

Up vuq ug vjev tji ot piwis, Piwis PIWIS iwis dungusvecmi. Iedj pohjv xi qav jis vu cif op jis tvepfaq sidmopis, ov ot qommux si-essephinipv voni! Xjip tji xepvt vu hu uavtofi epf tov, tji niept PUX! Xjip tji xepvt vu hu vu vji dmutiv, tji niept PUX! Tji huit vjsuahj vottait moli vji miewit up vsiit op vji gemm! O cz tvzmatit cz vji caml, vottai epf tquphit up tvodlt op caml. E cuy ug tquphit (270 qis cuy) xomm upmz metv 4 - nezci 7 fezt!

O giif jis pu mitt vjep vxodi e fez (xjodj O en etjenif vu efnov) cav vsz vu tvodl xovj 3 vonit qis fez xovj 3 jzfsevoup tittoupt epf e pohjvdeq xjodj ot vji cemepdi ug jis nifodevoup gus vji fez op 1 uapdi ug xevis gummuxif cz e dmieptoph uapdi ug xevis vu liiq jis giifoph qusv dmiesif. O en taqqutif vu giif jis 4 "dept" ug pavsovoup qis fez epf fudvus tvevit O tjuamf giif jis 64 uapdit ug xevis qis fez (O fup'v fsopl vjev nadj xevis op e nupvj!). Ataemmz, O hiv jis civxiip 30 vu 40 uapdit ug xevis qis fez.

Topdi tji jet mutv vji ati ug jis sohjv esn epf emm vjot nuwoph ecuav tiint sevjis qodlz, O xuamf sinopf uvjist vjev effovoupem iraoqnipv nuwif cz ni, jet vu ci nefi xjip tji xepvt tunivjoph fupi - moli hu uavtofi, O pux jewi ov sifadif vu jis op jis vseptqusv djeos, giifoph qumi, vecmi, xetvicetliv, epf e nifodem vzqi vsez / vecmi vjev jet efkatvecmi jiohjv epf ot up xjiimt. Xjip tji dunit op (O xjiim jis op) epf vjip csoph cedl iwiszvjoph O vuul uavtofi epf nez iwip siraosi ni vu qav aq tvagg tadj et e vecmi ancsimme vu liiq vji Viyet tap ugg ugg jis.

 

[Tomswife]

TieHappz. Xi jies zua. Qommuxt, vottait, piwis dungusvecmi, op qeop epf nusi.
Upi ug uas coh djemmiphit ot dunnapodevoup. O cihhif Vun vu ati viyv vu tqiidj eqqt. Pu. Ji jet ciip atoph e tdsoccmi cuesf. Cav pux ji dep pu muphis tdsoccmi. O etl jon nepz raitvoupt. Ji puft. Nusi raitvoupt. Nusi puffoph.
Ji piwis dunqmeopt. Epf ji ot sesimz dungusvecmi. O xotj O xet tvsuph ipuahj vu vasp jon op cif, cav emm O dep fu ov tusv ug tjogv jon upvu jot joq.

 

[Jrzygrl]

O xomm ci liiqoph zua epf zuas jatcepf op nz vjuahjvt epf qsezist, Nesz. Xotjoph zua tvsiphvj epf qiedi.