Joni,
You are such an inspiration. Thank you for the message. I do not have too much help. A friend stops by 2days a week and does some of the arm exercises with my husband, John. This is to keep his range of motion. they highly recommend it. Other than that, I pretty much do everything else. I take care of all of his needs, dress him, bathe, wash his hair, cut his nails, etc. Do you have to do most everything for your husband as well? I work very hard at keeping myself healthy and strong. I eat healthy and try to get exercise in when I'm at work. I have an hour for lunch at my job and take advantage of iit. I change into sweats and go out and walk/run most every day. I feel so good afterward. I take one day at a time, and sometimes, an hour at a time. thanks for being there for me.