VSED Advice Please

Lonnie

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My husband and I decided that I will VSED at home. We know I will need care in addition to what Hospice provides. The home care services are asking how many hours we will need them and for how long, but we don't know enough about the process to say. My husband is willing and will be here full time, but he's not a nurse and I don't want to burden him with too much. Can anyone guess at what point after I begin VSED we will need outside help and for how many hours a day?
 

SpeedyMarie

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Hi Lonnie,

My heart goes out to you now. VSED is a part of a natural death. Being a Hospice nurse I have seen some people live for weeks without food 7-14 days without water. During the dying process each body responds in its own way metabolism slows way down. You may sleep more and will be semi conscious at the end hearing is the last thing to go. During this process when you are actively dying it is best to have someone available to watch you 24/7. Your Hospice program will have a team that surrounds you. A nurse your case manger will set a schedule to your needs. Unfortunately Medicare does not deem actively dying a continuous care need. So once your actively dying nurse visits will be daily I imagine and you will have a home health aide to bath you several times a week. Nurse visits are usually 30 min to 1 hour aide visits the same. If your Hospice program has volunteer services they may be able to provide company ( not care) several hours a week. You team will have a social worker, MD, and Chaplin. I would advise plan for someone to be with you 24 hours you may need medication, turning etc. If your husband can cover the night someone to be with you during the day. One part of the Medicare Hospice benefit is respite 5 days every 30 days. You may not have all that time but it can help if you need 24/hr care in an inpatient unit or nursing facility to provide caregiver relief. Also ask the Hospice you are with if they have a caregiver list, people that know how to care for the dying most are bonded and have referrals. They can be much more affordable then some home care companies

I hope your journey is peaceful
 

Lonnie

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Thank you so very much for such a thorough and speedy reply. A home care representative is coming this morning to offer their services. We now know what questions to ask.
 

SpeedyMarie

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I’m glad that helped my dear. I hope the representative helped. I’ll keep you in my thoughts.
Marie
 
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