starente15
Senior member
- Joined
- Oct 27, 2014
- Messages
- 809
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 10/2017
- Country
- US
- State
- NJ
- City
- Northern
Hi friends!
I guess I'm settling into the new normal these days. Some days good, others bad. It seems a song, a TV show, something someone says, pretty much anything can cause the bad.
Last night I went for a run after work and started feeling out of breath. I immediately thought of how my father struggled trying not to use his bipap and found myself crying as I ran down the street. Then a song came on that reminded me of the walks I took by myself when I was caring for him at the end. Another flow of tears. I can't imagine what this must have looked like to anyone who drove by!
I wonder to myself if I'll ever be able to run or go for a walk without this happening. I feel a sense despair every time a show comes on that he watched because he was trapped in bed and that was all he had.
I thought maybe coming here and typing it out would help as I've been struggling for awhile. I started a new job 4 weeks which is helping to keep my mind busy for a good part of the day so that's positive.
I hope everyone is doing well. It's been so hard to come back because reading the posts stirs up images that cause major anxiety. Then I think that's nothing compared to the people who are going through it and feel guilty. It's a vicious cycle that just takes over your mind.
I guess I'm settling into the new normal these days. Some days good, others bad. It seems a song, a TV show, something someone says, pretty much anything can cause the bad.
Last night I went for a run after work and started feeling out of breath. I immediately thought of how my father struggled trying not to use his bipap and found myself crying as I ran down the street. Then a song came on that reminded me of the walks I took by myself when I was caring for him at the end. Another flow of tears. I can't imagine what this must have looked like to anyone who drove by!
I wonder to myself if I'll ever be able to run or go for a walk without this happening. I feel a sense despair every time a show comes on that he watched because he was trapped in bed and that was all he had.
I thought maybe coming here and typing it out would help as I've been struggling for awhile. I started a new job 4 weeks which is helping to keep my mind busy for a good part of the day so that's positive.
I hope everyone is doing well. It's been so hard to come back because reading the posts stirs up images that cause major anxiety. Then I think that's nothing compared to the people who are going through it and feel guilty. It's a vicious cycle that just takes over your mind.