Thanks to everyone who took the time to console me. I am sorry to say that, as much as I would like to believe you that this is really not my fault, I cannot write it off my mind. I know the link can't be so coincidental. I mean, what are the chances of getting ALS? Probably 3 out 0f 100,000. There has to be a trigger and the head bang is it. I might have gone a bit too far in saying that the symptoms started 2 weeks after the fall. It was my speculation that it probably started around there as I get beginning symptoms about 2 months after the fall. I tried to trace back the build-up and arrived at 2 weeks. I probably should have said it started about 1 - 2 months after the fall. And, I have read quite a number of posts of others' onset about that time range after trauma too. I read about a guy who seemed to get it a few months after a bang on the head after a slip in the wet pool during a sunny outing.
Another case involved trauma when forehead smashed into windsreen and ALS developed months after that.
This is about an officer who got ALS after head injuries sustained in a fight with criminals.
http://www.abbotsfordpolice.org/nm/publish/news_414.html
I really feel the guilt so much that the first thing that strike my mind when I wake up is a sense of utter despair on my ALS diagnosis, and then followed by overwheling guilt on my role in causing all this. I hate myself for being so careless. I would scream to allow me to turn back the clock. I repeatedly ask why punish me so much for a small mistake? How do people live with such guilt? I remember reading the news of how Cristopher Reeve was completedly paralysed from a riding incident, and asked if I could forgive myself if I was in his shoes. I remember sympathising with him so much because he had such great future and a great wife for him and an able body to enjoy all he can, and all it took was a fall for him to be a quadriplegic instantly. Little did I know then that I would face with such mental torture years later.
I probably should have at least 30 - 40 years of productive years ahead of me. Just when things look so good, and I am at a stage of prime of my life, my kids and wife are wonderful. Thing could not have been better. And all it takes, is just a slip of attention, and the rest, they say, is history......
I feel like dropping from the top of heaven straight into the bottom of hell..in an instant.. the superman way....
And feeling like that does not help me with the uphill battle ahead. I know. But I couldn't help it. Sometimes, I feel like blowing my brains off, to turn it into a real blunder, a real blunder that deserves grave punishment like crippling and death..
I just cannot accept or rationalise how one's life can change in one second...
Tell me, how do I deal with? Should I just take it as my own fault and move on? Can you do it? How can I forgive myself?