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Guru status reached
- Joined
- Apr 26, 2013
- Messages
- 16,096
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 05/2013
- Country
- OZ
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- AU
- City
- lala land
Ahhhhh Paulette so true!
If we hold our heads high, and we are efficient and give excellent care - we are hard hearted.
If we break down constantly, can't cope, need help all the time - we are incompetent and our PALS should be put into care.
I agree, I would break down only at times and in ways that I felt were safe or that I could manage. Part of my coping mechanism was to appear confident (hell my husband was terrified, of course I tried to help alleviate that to some degree), and to appear that I could manage it all.
I was accused of being NEGATIVE if I told it like it was when asking one in particular of his children to just spend some time with him whilst they could.
Snowman you are doing a great job, and you are supported here by those who know just how hard this job is and what it takes out of the CALS. I know your mother is constantly grateful for you as well as you father.
I hope all is OK
If we hold our heads high, and we are efficient and give excellent care - we are hard hearted.
If we break down constantly, can't cope, need help all the time - we are incompetent and our PALS should be put into care.
I agree, I would break down only at times and in ways that I felt were safe or that I could manage. Part of my coping mechanism was to appear confident (hell my husband was terrified, of course I tried to help alleviate that to some degree), and to appear that I could manage it all.
I was accused of being NEGATIVE if I told it like it was when asking one in particular of his children to just spend some time with him whilst they could.
Snowman you are doing a great job, and you are supported here by those who know just how hard this job is and what it takes out of the CALS. I know your mother is constantly grateful for you as well as you father.
I hope all is OK