I think I missed that post by Richard about fleas, what page was it on?
Kimberly, if you feel the need to talk about what it is that's bothering you, why don't you PM one of us, and tell us who YOU want it to be released to. I don't think something so personal should be on this part of the forum, as anyone can come on this section, it's not private just to us. I'd be happy to help you out if you choose to do that, but again, DON'T post it where ANYONE can see your private info. You never know what can come back and bite you in the butt!
And remember, we all have done things that we would react to differently had we KNOWN at the time what to do... sometimes life just happens too fast, and the people who are supposed to be helping you just don't notice, or don't care to notice. Like Ann said, we've all sinned; I think we've all been sinned against as well... no one gets through life unscathed. We can just try to be better people today than we were yesterday I guess.
Sending you lots of hugs and a kick in the butt to let you know that nothing you can say is going to change our minds, you're our friend. Love you lots...