laurel
Very helpful member
- Joined
- Jul 19, 2007
- Messages
- 1,436
- Reason
- DX UMND/PLS
- Diagnosis
- 07/2007
- Country
- CA
- State
- BC
- City
- Vancouver
I would just quietly tell her she is not welcome if she appears again. You have no grounds for a restraining order at this point, but you would if she tries to push past you and come in. At that point call the police. Your husband is ill and you are his wife and you can set the limits on who comes and goes into your home. I would not discuss it with your husband --even though he does have a right to know --she has caused at lot of misery in your life in the past so why bother to add fuel to the fire by discussing her with him. Just keep your lip zipped and don't let her in. My two cents. I'm sorry that she has re-appeared at this stressful time in your life. Try to not ruminate about her Pandora--just say no if she calls or attempts to visit. You owe her no explanations. Hugs to you.
Laurel
Laurel