Hi, I hope all of you out there are doing well! I have a couple of questions. The time has come that his lung capacity has gone down to the point that they are recommending he get put on a ventilator. I fist want to ask if there are any words I can say to him that have helped all of you in the past? I know I cannot take away this pain but I really want to bring a piece of mind to him if that is even possible. I thought you all might have something that has helped you. My second question is he is unsure if he wants a ventilator or not. I want to help him decide but is so unsure. Are there any experiences you all might have gone through to help me out on this? should he do it? He is still using his hands at the moment but I have see those get weaker and he is the type of person who really does not like staying inside especially with this nice wether coming. Help!