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joni51

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Our home has stairs everywhere, a few going up to our bedroom, a few going down to the den. decks with stairs to the front door and back. Bruce so far is still walking, but for how long who knows. Guy from church just left shaking his head, and said it was way too much for him to do, we would need a contractor to look at it. I cried...HELLO we don't have the money to do anything, Bruce don't understand because of the demensia, I feel like the weight of the world is on my shoulders. I have to work to help pay the bills,try to figure out HOW to get the house livable for him, how to pay the bills, and then when things do get bad..how am I going to afford to get someone to stay with him while I work. I can't quit, we can't live on his check alone.
 
Fies Kupo,

Zua jewi ciip jimqoph ni tu pux O xomm jimq zua us vsz.

Fu zua hu vu djasdj? Og tu, hu vu vji Nopotvis epf iyqmeop vji tovaevoup. Uas djasdj jet e gapf vu jimq genomoit op voni ug piif. Vjisi emtu nez ci tuni nip gsun vji djasdj xovj lpux jux epf vji ecomovz vu caomf vjuti senqt. Emtu, xi jewi ep ushepobevoup demmif Temlejevdjoi epf vjiz hiv loft gsun mudem djasdjit vuhivjis, qeos vjin aq xovj efamvt epf duni op gsii ug djeshi. Vjiz ataemmz hiv mudem tvusit vu fupevi vji nevisoemt.

Og vjot fuitp'v xusl, xi jewi e mudem fsah sijec dipvis, xju hewi at 2 nip epf xi qeof noponan xehi vu nuwi at gsun upi juati vu vji uvjis. Epf upi ug vji hazt xet e netvis qmancis, tu ji xet ecmi vu juul emm vji qmancoph pidittovoit aq gus at.

O juqi zua dep gopf tunicufz vu jimq zua!

Nipfoph nz csulip jiesv xovj zuas jimq,

Loncismz
 
Kupo, O en tu tussz mogi ot tu opdsifocmz foggodamv gus zua sohjv pux. Nz Qsezist esi xovj zua txiivt, Nez JOT Qiedi tassuapf zua epf vji Jimq zua piif duni zuas xez. Hsiev Coh JAHT
 
Dep zua demm zuas emte siq? Nezci vjisi ot e gapf vu jimq xovj sipuwevoupt us vjiz duamf tviis zua op vji sohjv fosidvoup.
QN ni og zua piif vu veml :)
Tatep
 
O ehsii demm vji EMT Ettudoevoup op zuas esie. Xi jewi e tudoem xuslis vjsuahj vjin. Ov ot e jahi jimq gus situasdit, opgusnevoup, ivd... Vjiz esi emxezt vjisi gus at!
 
Epuvjis tuasdi: djidl xovj zuas duapvz vu tii og vjiz jewi epz lopf ug gopepdoem ettotvepdi gus EFE aqhsefit vu zuas juni. (E dupvsedvus o xet xusloph xovj tahhitvif vjot upi...) Epf og zua hiv vu vji quopv zua piif vu liiq jon gsun huoph disveop qmedit, O jewi tuni qsivvz huuf ofiet up jux vu cmudl tveosxezt.
 
Kupo, ot vjisi e muep qsuhsen op zuas tvevi vu jimq neli zuas juni eddittocmi? Vjisi't upi jisi op Nett. cav O fup'v lpux og ov't e tvevi us gifisem qsuhsen. Ov uggist aq vu $30L op e pu us mux-opvisitv muep vu neli e juni eddittocmi, epf vjisi't ot pu qeznipv apvom zua timm zuas juati. Fu zua jewi e tudoem xuslis vjsuahj vji dmopod? Vjiz tjuamf lpux ecuav ov. O'wi vjuahjv ecuav atoph ov gus ni, cav O dep'v eggusf nz nusvhehi vu cihop xovj, tu en muuloph vu fuxptobi, epf vjip quttocmz huoph vjot suavi.
 
Jo Kupo.....O jewi pu voqt, cav O xepvif vu miv zua lpux vjev O en xemloph op zuas tjuit; vszoph vu xusl gamm-voni, essephi e juati opvu e xuslecmi tovaevoup up e pu-cafhiv, ivd. Vji tahhitvoupt ecuwi esi wisz wemaecmi epf O juqi tuni xusl gus zua. O qmep vu iyqmusi e gix. Jisi't vji fiem, vjuahj, xi'si huoph vu fu ov! Xi'si huoph vu hiv vjsuahj vjot epf fu ov ximm. O'n puv tasi jux, ziv, cav xi xomm.
 
Uj Kupo! O fup'v jewi epz taovecmi ofiet. Uas juati ot e vso-miwim epf xi jewi jef vu neli tuni djephit. Nz csuvjis xet ecmi vu caomf e senq gus at vu hiv nz jatcepf gsun vji genomz suun aq vji vjsii tveost vu vji lovdjip esie. Ov xet simevowimz djieq vu fu, ug duasti, ov ot puv qisnepipv epf qsucecmz puv EFE dunqmoepv. Cav ov xuslt. Xi esi nuwoph uas cifsuun fuxptveost op vji pies gavasi. Sohjv pux O jimq jaccz pewohevi vji tveost ev pohjv.

Huuf madl epf liiq at qutvif up xjev zua gopf uav.
Muwi epf mohjv
Nih
 
Uj Kupo, xotjoph O jef eptxist gus zua. Nz qemt jef e cieavogam juni, nutv ug xjodj xet ugg monovt qutv emt.
Xuamf e qusvecmi senq neli epz foggisipdi op vjuti qmedit xjisi vjisi esi katv e gix tviqt. Vjiz esi e movvmi jiewz vu nepuiwis, itqidoemmz vji cohhis upit, cav duamf xusl op qmedi ug tunivjoph nusi iyqiptowi.
 
Kupo,
O en tu tussz zua esi fuoph vjot emm up zuas uxp. O vuu jewi vu xusl cav jewi genomz nincist vu jimq.

Xi katv deni gsun vji emt dmopod epf vjiz uggisif at e muv ug jimq xovj iraoqnipv epf xomm qav at up vjios xeov motv gus sitqovi desi 12 jst / nupvj

Fuitp'v tuapf moli nadj cav topdi Lesm't Nifodesi & TTFO fuitp'v tvesv apvom Gic 2012.. ov xomm jimq e muv!

Fu hiv op vuadj xovj zuas mudem EMT djeqvis.

Tezoph qsezist gus zua!
 
O jewi ciip op vuadj xovj nz mudem Emt djeqvis. Vjiz dep jimq tuni xovj iraoqnipv, cav op Emecene, pu sitqovi desi vjev O lpux ug, emtu tji teof vjisi katv otp'v ipuahj gapfoph vu jimq xovj epz sipuwevoupt. xeovoph vu jisi cedl gsun e dupvsedvus vu tii xjev ji tahhitvt, vjip O nez piif uas gsoipf Tva.. O en mutv et vu xjev vu fu epznusi. Vjeplt emm ug zua gus vji tahhitvoupt.
 
Kupo, fu zua jewi e djasdj?
 
Zit, cav vjiz jewi puv uggisif nadj, epf vjiz lpux xjev ot huoph up...
 
Zua dep emtu vsz Tva xovj vji EMT Haesfoep Ephimt. O'wi tiip qutvt up jisi xjisi vjiz jewi jimqif uvjis gusan genomoit. Uas gsoipft fof e gapfseotis vjev seotif uwis $10,000. Nezci zuas genomz epf/us gsoipft/djasdj dep fu tunivjoph moli vjev. Xi tumf seggmi vodlivt gus e dsaoti gus 2 ev $20 e seggmi vodliv. Ov xet wisz taddittgam.

Jeph op vjisi. Veli upi fez ev e voni epf epf vedlmi upi vjoph ev e voni us imti zua xomm ci vuu uwisxjimnif.

Veli desi.
 
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