Pride goeth before a fall. A cautionary tale.

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Greg, thanks for this important message. I wish that my husband had read this 9 months ago.

He had very little use of his arms but his legs were still strong so he refused to use the walker that his ALS clinic doctor recommended. He even made me put it in a closet so he wouldn't have to see it. He had a series of falls ( 9 in total) and each time I would plead with him to use the walker but he would always say that it would not have prevented the fall.

Last June he fell again. He denied any injury but became increasingly more sleepy over the next couple of days and complained of a headache. We went to the ER and he had a CT scan that showed bilateral subdural hematomas both chronic from old falls and acute from this recent fall. He ended up spending 10 weeks in the hospital and almost didn't make it.

There was marked progression of the ALS during this time. My husband says he had 2 years of progression over the 10 week period. Prior to this he had slow progression over a 10 year period.

I can't emphasize enough to all PALS and CALS the importance of taking all precautions to prevent falls. Do not let your pride stand in the way.

Sharon
 
I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY......you definitely put it all in perspective. You are a little ahead of me, but knowing that others are going thru the same stuff, kinda normalizes it for me.

I am fighting the "pride" fight right now, as well as the tremendous fear of progression, and loosing what is left of my independence.

I feel like I am one fall away from a chair...and the 24/7 fear of loosing what I am fighting for.

The tears of an assclown.......
 
Greg,
Very well said. Every time I go to the clinic, they tell me I need to use a rollator. I was reluctant for a long time and I know it was more pride than anything else. I've had two falls and luckily wasn't hurt too badly. I now use a cane full time and use a rollator when I know I'm going to be on my feet for longer periods of time.
Marty
 
Thank you, Greg.
So much.
 
Thanks, Greg. I have fallen twice in the last week. Now I am looking forward to my loaner pwc that is coming Monday! Now if I can just avoid another fall before Monday! Wendy
 
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