Kristina1
Senior member
- Joined
- Jan 26, 2017
- Messages
- 822
- Reason
- PALS
- Diagnosis
- 03/2017
- Country
- US
- State
- MA
- City
- Grafton
jethro, im sorry you are feeling this way. I do disagree a lot with your approach. I wonder if some of your thoughts and feelings about this are cultural. I was raised in the Czech Republic, and attitudes toward disability are horrible there. I am so grateful to be in the US with my disabled child and now my disabled self.
I have a daughter who will be 8 in July, and also a 9 year old son and a 5 year old son. I have started using a wheelchair so that I can participate in outings with my kids and husband. I can definitely still walk, but not for very long/far and it requires attention that reduces my ability to be in the moment with my family and enjoy myself. My kids do great with the wheelchair. They fight over who gets to push me! I think if you frame it for your daughter in a positive light she will come around so fast. Children are capable of such expansive acceptance and flexibility. It's up to us to guide what direction that takes.
I have a daughter who will be 8 in July, and also a 9 year old son and a 5 year old son. I have started using a wheelchair so that I can participate in outings with my kids and husband. I can definitely still walk, but not for very long/far and it requires attention that reduces my ability to be in the moment with my family and enjoy myself. My kids do great with the wheelchair. They fight over who gets to push me! I think if you frame it for your daughter in a positive light she will come around so fast. Children are capable of such expansive acceptance and flexibility. It's up to us to guide what direction that takes.