MMuse
New member
- Joined
- Feb 23, 2010
- Messages
- 2
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 2/2010
- Country
- US
- State
- Texas
- City
- San Antonio
Fencer - My Mom (79) is going for her second opinion next week. She had spinal fusion surgery in July and was supposed to recover and start walking and getting back to her normal life. Somehow, her recovery wasn't coming along. We kept tracking her progress, or lack of, and were wondering why. By December she was in a wheelchair. We thought the spinal surgery had failed. In January she looked thinner, her voice was different, she started choking on water, she didn't sleep because of leg spasms and her legs were thinner, atrophying, and so spastic that they would not bend. On Feb 9 the neurologist told me she had ALS. He didn't expect me to know what ALS meant and started blurting out that maybe she didn't have ALS, maybe he was wrong so he scheduled this second opinion appointment. I knew simply because I kept looking for reasons for my Mom's symptoms. When I first read about ALS I thought "no way, very unlikely". Little did I know it would be my worst nightmare diagnosis of my Mom's disease. We haven't told her what she has in detail. Since her surgery she has gone from 148 pounds to 115 pounds, unable to walk, cannot lie on her back because she can't breathe, and with such terrible spasms that the meds barely make a difference. So yes, I understand what you are saying about seeing your Mother go through this anguish and pain and being able to do absolutely nothing about it. My 86 year old Father just wants to know when his wife of over 60 years is going to get better. He's doing great, has quality of life, always happy and wonderful but he's beginning to realize that his strong, independent, dignified, wonderful, loving, wife is never going to be the same. This is horrible, terrible, and just not right. I pray for you and all the others who are going through this nightmare. The cruelty of it is almost unbearable.