Dear All,
finally a moment to update on our situation. Today marks 2 weeks of Laurence's hospice stay. We had some rough times, last weekend in particular when I thought I was not going to see him again. Things have now leveled out somewhat, he is eating well by mouth, supplementing oral feeds with one PEG feed (about 500 calories) per day. Digestion and toileting are bit of an issue, but nothing major. His skin is in a terrible state though, and one of the hospice doctors will try him on different creams (he seems to have several skin conditions going on at once). His ventilator use went from 22 hrs per day to being able and wanting to come off for 5/6 hours each day - something particularly important. I have been using cough assist daily, and this is becoming an indispensable piece of equipment.
He has grown to know all the nurses and volunteers in the hospice, and everyone has been extremely supportive. There is a glimpse of a new care package on horizon, so as soon as this is in place he can come out. I visit daily and take Stan when the circumstances allow me to do so. He cheers everyone up.
Thank you all for your support, kind words and messages. Dani