dwmiresii
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My Father In Law whom I do consider a close friend over the last 4 years that I have known him. Is one of the strongest, Loving, Caring people I have ever known... Today my wife and I got the news we were dreading. As of tomorrow they will be trying to put him back on his Bi-pap (If i spelled it wrong sorry). If that does not work then unfortunately they said they would have to put him on morphine and slow let him you know what.... This is one of the hardest challenges I have ever had to deal with. I have Watched my Uncle die in front of me from Lung Cancer, My Grandmother die from Breast Cancer, My dad pass away from stubbornness (He did not listen to anyone), My Aunt from Influenza and the sudden death of my cousin from over weight health issues.....
I am trying to be the rock my wife needs and today was the 1st time I broke down. I had to walk out of his room cause I started to cry.... He has lived a good life, long and full. The last 2 years she has been a great daughter and friend to her dad, not missing one Dr appointment to be with him and she herself went through gastric bypass and one of the biggest things I heard him say to her a week ago is, "You do not know how happy I am to see you loosing the weight you have always wanted to and have a caring husband that would do anything for you." Today after she left the room to make a few phone calls, he looked at me while I was holding his hand and he had the look of take care of her..... I said to him "Ray do not worry, She is in good hands and I will always take care of her" I had to walk out cause I started to cry......
Her boss has been sooo understanding of this.
This song makes me think of people in my life that has pasted on to a better place....
God Only Knows By Orianthi
I feel so alone, can't seem to find my out of this lone?
No, it don't seem right
I didn't have a chance to say goodbye.
In this this silent space, I close my eyes I can hear you say
That it's alright, but my world's such an empty place tonight.
Cause I know that, it's all part of life.
I wish I had the chance to say goodbye, yeah I still miss you.
So hard to see through the tears I've cried.
Yeah, I still need you.
Cause I don't want to, if I don't have to ever let you go.
The longest I'll hold on... God only knows.
As the time goes by, it gets a little easier to smile.
I know I'll never forget everything that you said.
You said it's alright, it's all part of life.
I wish I had the chance to say goodbye, yeah I still miss you.
So hard to see through the tears I've cried.
Yeah, I still need you.
Cause I don't want to, if I don't have to ever let you go.
The longest I'll hold on... God only knows.
{The hard times} will never fade if you keep looking up
Right around there is a better place if you believe in love.
Cause I know that, it's all part of life.
I wish I had the chance to say goodbye, yeah I still miss you.
So hard to see through the tears I've cried.
Yeah, I still need you.
Cause I don't want to, if I don't have to ever let you go.
The longest I'll hold on, the longest I'll hold on.
The longest I'll hold on... God only knows.
God only knows.
Ya, God only knows.
God only knows.
If anyone has advice on how to stay strong for my wife it would be greatly apreaciated.
I am trying to be the rock my wife needs and today was the 1st time I broke down. I had to walk out of his room cause I started to cry.... He has lived a good life, long and full. The last 2 years she has been a great daughter and friend to her dad, not missing one Dr appointment to be with him and she herself went through gastric bypass and one of the biggest things I heard him say to her a week ago is, "You do not know how happy I am to see you loosing the weight you have always wanted to and have a caring husband that would do anything for you." Today after she left the room to make a few phone calls, he looked at me while I was holding his hand and he had the look of take care of her..... I said to him "Ray do not worry, She is in good hands and I will always take care of her" I had to walk out cause I started to cry......
Her boss has been sooo understanding of this.
This song makes me think of people in my life that has pasted on to a better place....
God Only Knows By Orianthi
I feel so alone, can't seem to find my out of this lone?
No, it don't seem right
I didn't have a chance to say goodbye.
In this this silent space, I close my eyes I can hear you say
That it's alright, but my world's such an empty place tonight.
Cause I know that, it's all part of life.
I wish I had the chance to say goodbye, yeah I still miss you.
So hard to see through the tears I've cried.
Yeah, I still need you.
Cause I don't want to, if I don't have to ever let you go.
The longest I'll hold on... God only knows.
As the time goes by, it gets a little easier to smile.
I know I'll never forget everything that you said.
You said it's alright, it's all part of life.
I wish I had the chance to say goodbye, yeah I still miss you.
So hard to see through the tears I've cried.
Yeah, I still need you.
Cause I don't want to, if I don't have to ever let you go.
The longest I'll hold on... God only knows.
{The hard times} will never fade if you keep looking up
Right around there is a better place if you believe in love.
Cause I know that, it's all part of life.
I wish I had the chance to say goodbye, yeah I still miss you.
So hard to see through the tears I've cried.
Yeah, I still need you.
Cause I don't want to, if I don't have to ever let you go.
The longest I'll hold on, the longest I'll hold on.
The longest I'll hold on... God only knows.
God only knows.
Ya, God only knows.
God only knows.
If anyone has advice on how to stay strong for my wife it would be greatly apreaciated.