Helovedmefirst
New member
- Joined
- Nov 25, 2016
- Messages
- 3
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 04/2016
- Country
- US
- State
- Texas
- City
- Dallas
So recently like I said in my last thread I've been struggling and I know my dad is struggling more. It makes me feel horrible to get upset in front of him because he is the one with this disease, not me. I am sick at the thought of losing my dad but he is living with this not me and if he can smile and laugh the so can I. So I've decided I want to start a note book, a spiral bond book between him and I of hand written notes. A book we can talk about nothing of importance or of something hard. I say the hard things because sometimes my dad is still in denial and sometime he isn't and I know he was recently diagnosed but I feel like we need to get our ducks in a row asap, and this would be the perfect way to not fight about it in his last years. He isn't married and I'm am his only child, so when he passes everything falls on me and I know there are conversation we need to have like life support and burial options if he even wants to be buried or cremated instead. All of which I wouldn't be able to get out to have a conversation because I would be in tears. He says he will try and that's all I can ask of him. Do you all think this is a good approach or am I being a coward.
Sincerely,
Sunshine
Sincerely,
Sunshine