Ron,
We've been using a sling/lift combination for some time. We elected to procure a lift that was portable as my wife still goes into work with me each day. It folds into an easy to transport package (or easy for us with our conversion van). We also purchase a sling that I still believe to be the very best thing that we've actually spent out-of-pocket money on. If it were to become damaged or lost I'd immediately purchase it again. I did write a review on it back in June. It was titled, "A Sling Like No Other". I'll post a link in the thread right behind this as it might go to moderation.
We use the sling daily for toileting, getting in and out of bed and for getting in and out of the reclining shower chair. I'm sure that we're well over a thousand sling events... and every time I have to use it, I'm thankful for finding this particular sling (Thanks again, Diane H!). The lift we purchased was the non-electric... and it really works quite well. I will admit, however, there are times when I wonder if it would have been worth the additional cost for the electric version. But then I'd have just another item that would have to be kept plugged in and charged.
For us, the change from scooter to power wheelchair (PWC) was difficult transition. We had the PWC before she really needed it... and for traveling, she preferred to drive the scooter up to the front passenger side of our van, be helped to a standing position and then into the seat. When she began having difficulty standing, even with help... and when she fell that first time and we couldn't get her back into the car, even with help (required an ambulance to get her home)... we looked into the conversion van. Once we had the van that we could drive her PWC into, it was like a whole new world opened up to her. Suddenly she wanted to go places again. One of the first places was to go shopping (something she'd not done for months). We went to Walmart and she was like a kid in a toy store. I think she spent over $500 that first time out.
The point is... with the right equipment, we really can get out and do things. With the portable hoyer, sling, conversion van and PWC, we can now take trips and stay away overnight. For us, the only limiting factor has been time between bathroom stops... but there are ways to extend even that or to minimize its impact. The right equipment makes such a difference. I don't fuss and fret when slinging her up... which makes her feel more comfortable and less imposing on my time. I think that is extremely important in the day-to-day of ALS.
I hope the two of you are able to find the tools that make this a much easier process. Keep asking questions... lots of wonderful people who are on this same ride and have some great advice...
Jim