clh71
New member
- Joined
- Apr 16, 2010
- Messages
- 5
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 12/2009
- Country
- UK
- State
- Hants
- City
- Portsmouth
My mum has ALS, diagnosed a year ago. She can't move at all, and her speech has fallen off a cliff in the last month, barely understandable now. Also, we think she is experiencing lower oxygen levels as she looks heavy lidded and tired. She has refused all intervention, no PEG, no ventilation of any kind, no treatment. I understand this, although it is hard. Thing is, I don't have anyone to ask what to expect. If she is experiencing breathing troubles, how quickly will it progress? All her other symptoms have progressed really quickly once a weakness starts, so I am guessing it will be the same. And, what will happen when she can't swallow? She is already struggling to swallow, but managing a little. I am so scared that she has chosen to go painfully. What are the signs to look out for if things are getting serious? I have no-one else to ask, and I need to know how long, or just how things will happen. I don't want her to starve, or choke. It's so scary. She won't tell me anything and I have to guess what's happening because she refuses to acknowledge things. Not knowing is the scariest thing. Any insight you could give me, even if it is bad, would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.