Tmg - Hi I'm Sue that Tillie referred to above. If there is one thing we cannot predict, it's the end. My PALS, my husband Brian, has had me thinking it was "the end" 4 times over the past 5 years. The first was a very bad bout of pneumonia. He had refused to go get checked out until he was in so much pain, the first thing the Doc's in the ER ask was if I wanted Pastoral Care. Well, he survived that. A couple of years later, another bout of pneumonia. Then after that we went in for stomach issue and he went septic because he had aspirated scrambled eggs. He was out for 3 days. That was Aug of 2015.
Just a month ago, he quit eating his HR was in the 140's and his BP was sky high and he was out of it for 5 days. Again, thought it was the end, started planning a memorial service because he was barely getting any fluids either except with the meds to keep him comfortable. Then bang he recovered He's eating again, and back to his pre-episode self.
I will note that he is on a vent and has been close to 7 years now (Aug will be 7). He has movement of one thumb and can blink and smile - that's it. He's been in his bed 24/7 for 2 years w/the exception of a ride to the hospital here and there. Due to the vent, that changes things in regards to his breathing a bit. With your mom not being on a vent, things will be different for her. However, Brian's o2 level can still drop on the vent and has, especially when he has pneumonia.
All this to day, there is no prediciting unfortunately. Definitely get help adjusting the bi-pap. It will make your Mom more comfortable.
Hugs as you work through this,
Sue