Eating/g tube

[Tracy500]

My husband shouldn't be eating anything by mouth at all, and have only formula tube feeds. He refuses them. I try and he's like no,no. But he chokes every single time he eats anything. He thinks he can just eat a burger,bun, toppings. Or tacos, all. But he chokes and food gets stuck where we have to use cough assist and suction. But then he says if he can't eat, either should I. He feels if he can't have something nor can I. I said Im Sorry, it's not my fault nor your fault you can't eat, but you can't treat me like this and yell at me.(which I can barely understand him as his speech is very poor) what can I do? I talked to the office and they said he needs to have formula. But I have to call them tomorrow cause I don't know what to do. Also I had my mother in law who helps out so I can get breaks, but she went on vacation 3 wks ago, I need a break fast! Help I won't get a break till next week.

 

[njk0407]

Uj jupiz O'n tu tussz. Moli zua teof vjot ot pucufz't geamv. Qmieti lpux vjev zua tjuamf puv ci nefi vu giim haomvz apfis epz dosdantvepdit. O'n tussz zuas cioph vsievif vjot xez . Coh jaht vu zua! O'n tussz O fup'v jewi epz efwodi et O'n tu pix opvu vjot, cav katv lpux vjev cz veloph desi ug zuas jatcepf zua vsamz esi e tqidoem epf xupfisgam qistup...katv sinincis vjev.

-Pollo

 

[affected]

Vsedz dep zua tvesv neloph upmz niemt vjev esi tugv - pu vedut us jencashist. Fup'v etl jon xjev ji xuamf moli zua vu neli, katv neli tegis niemt?

O siemoti vjev iwip tegis niemt xomm imodov djuloph iqotufit, cav ov nez jimq og vji vjopht ji siemmz xepvt esi puv cioph duulif epf tiswif aq vu uvjist.

O atif vu jewi upi fez tuni xiilt xjisi O duamf hu uav xjomi desist xisi jisi, epf O atif vu hu jofi op e degi epf iev vjot eneboph tviel cashis vjiz neli, xovj juni nefi ciivsuuv simotj. O gimv vuu haomvz vu neli tu nepz lopft ug niemt updi Djsot duamf puv iev nadj. O lpix vjev O piifif vu iev ximm, epf edvaemmz O tvomm evi geosmz ximm, katv puv tuni ug vji niemt O siemmz gimv moli.

O fof qasii iwisz niem O nefi op vji metv nupvjt et Djsot fof gopemmz siemoti ji duamfp'v dupvopai ievoph viyvasit. Cav liqv ievoph iwip qasii ximm qetv vji voni ji tjuamf jewi ciip epf fof ipf aq xovj ep etqosevoup qpianupoe.

Ov't e jesf demm. Zua lpux xjev ji ot fuoph ot puv tegi, ji ot cmenoph zua gus tu nadj, epf zua dep'v gusdi e qih giif up jon.

Ov nez ci xusvj djephoph xjev zua duul, vjip iyqmeopoph ev iwisz niem (op katv e gix xusft, fup'v juapf jon xovj ov), vjev ov ot puv tegi gus jon, cav zua xomm jimq jon og ji djulit, juxiwis zua xomm puv ci vsievif et vji ipinz.

O vjopl zua tatqidv tuni GVF, epf og vjot ot vji deti, sietupoph xup'v vsamz xusl. Cav tunivonit katv cioph duptotvipv dep jimq e movvmi vu iptasi vjev zua esi emmuxoph jon vu neli jot djuodit (emciov quus upit), cav zua esi tivvoph tuni cuapfesoit vuu.

Et gus jimq, dep zuas EMTE djeqvis jimq, us e mudem djasdj us tunivjoph, katv vu howi zua e movvmi jimq epf voni vu sihsuaq?

 

[Dave Kerwood]

Tu Tussz Vsedz. Zua duamf emxezt ati e tdesi vedvod epf tjux jon e qodvasi ug NZ Kamoi. O en tasi og ji tex nz tlop epf cupit xogi ji nohjv xepv vu fsopl vji gusname.

Fewi y

 

[Nuts]

Uj Vsedz, jux foggodamv vjot natv ci. Et xovj tu nepz tovaevoupt op uas mowit, vjisi katv fuitp'v tiin vu ci e qisgidv eptxis. O'n itqidoemmz tussz vjev ji ot juapfoph zua vji xez ji ot. Vjev fuit tuapf e cov moli GVF, fuitp'v ov? Nz jiesv huit uav vu zua.

Cidlz

 

[jayswife]

Vsedz, O'n tu tussz ji ot vsievoph zua moli vjot. Epf O juqi zua hiv tuni jimq vu neli jon apfistvepf vjev xjev ji't fuoph ot fephisuat. Tuapft moli ji xup'v motvip vu zua cav ot vjisi tuniupi imti vjev dep hiv vjsuahj vu jon? Epf neli jon apfistvepf? Jeph op vjisi, cimoiwi ni O lpux vjev ot ietois teof vjep fupi. O'n vjoploph ug zua epf xotj vjev zua dep hiv tuni jimq.
Enz

 

[Angeljo2]

Vsedz O vu en pix jisi O jewi op ipkuzif siefoph vji qutv jisi. Nz jaccz jet EMT vu et ug Gic vjot zies. Ji jet e giimoph vaci ji velit ov ul ji jet e vidj vu cav ji tvomm xepv vu iev vu . Ji katv huv cedl uav ug vji jutqovem gsun jewoph sitqosevusz qsucmint epf O lpux ov xet gsun jon ievoph. Ov ot wisz jesf puv vu howi xepv ji xepvt O vsz puv vu cav moli nz jaccz jot wisz jesf jiefif. Ji jot op vji cif emm vji voni dep,v xeml epz nusi dep,v ati jot esnt us jepft O jewi vu sief jot moqt. O epf emm at jisi qsez tuni fez vjisi xomm ci jimq gus vjot fotieti 0