Tracy500
Active member
- Joined
- Jan 28, 2015
- Messages
- 57
- Reason
- CALS
- Diagnosis
- 06/2014
- Country
- US
- State
- Wi
- City
- Madison
My husband shouldn't be eating anything by mouth at all, and have only formula tube feeds. He refuses them. I try and he's like no,no. But he chokes every single time he eats anything. He thinks he can just eat a burger,bun, toppings. Or tacos, all. But he chokes and food gets stuck where we have to use cough assist and suction. But then he says if he can't eat, either should I. He feels if he can't have something nor can I. I said Im Sorry, it's not my fault nor your fault you can't eat, but you can't treat me like this and yell at me.(which I can barely understand him as his speech is very poor) what can I do? I talked to the office and they said he needs to have formula. But I have to call them tomorrow cause I don't know what to do. Also I had my mother in law who helps out so I can get breaks, but she went on vacation 3 wks ago, I need a break fast! Help I won't get a break till next week.