njk0407
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- Joined
- May 10, 2016
- Messages
- 84
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 06/2016
- Country
- US
- State
- NC
- City
- Holly Springs
We were able to get in sooner than July 5th...It was confirmed by Dr. Bedlack that my 36 year old husband, father of our 2 children (ages 4 & 13 months) has ALS. Happy Belated Birthday to me and Anniversary to Us (6 years this Sunday). Sorry to be so sarcastic, but I'm so ANGRY!!!!! I feel cheated, this should NOT be happening. When I look at our children I literally want to LOSE it!!!! This is REAL.
My husband keeps telling me that it will be OK, but I know it won't be. OK to me means that this isn't true and it's just a bad dream, but this is not the case NOTHING will be OK ever again, not without him. My husband is handling this better than me. I didn't go to work today, I CAN'T! I don't want to be there. I don't want to be here at home.
I spent hours just driving around our little town, sitting in parking lots trying to figure out where to go. We have no family here and I really don't have any friends here unfortunately. Nobody can make this better anyways. The friends I talk to on the phone cannot even begin to understand the level of despair and hopelessness I feel....they all get to KEEP their husbands Anything is better than this, KNOWING what's going to happen to him, what he's going to go through, the SUFFERING!
How am I suppose to watch this happen to him??? Our children??? I can't even begin to think about what our son is going to think. The WORST part is the knowing! My husband is being so brave and so strong, but I am quite certain he must be TERRIFIED! He told me last night that he's nervous about not being able to breathe or eat...I literally wanted to break down screaming. I cannot imagine what he must be feeling. I am trying to put on a brave face for him, but I honestly feel like I would rather a tornado rip through our house in the middle of the night than this, anything is better than this.
I am already mourning the loss of him and he is still here. This makes no sense. He is so young, our kids are young, were just starting out. We have plans.....we have plans. I don't even know if this is the right forum for me to be saying all this. I can't say this stuff to him. One minute I think I am ok and the next minute I'm in a pit of despair. I've already gotten on medication.
How hilarious....I'm seeing a psychiatrist, my husband is diagnosed with a terminal illness and to think a month ago I was complaining about disliking my job or being tired or having to do the laundry or whatever other stupid insignificant thing. I would take it all back, all of it, I'll do anything! He's eligible for clinical trials so I'll be asking for advice on those. Thanks for listening.
-Nikki
My husband keeps telling me that it will be OK, but I know it won't be. OK to me means that this isn't true and it's just a bad dream, but this is not the case NOTHING will be OK ever again, not without him. My husband is handling this better than me. I didn't go to work today, I CAN'T! I don't want to be there. I don't want to be here at home.
I spent hours just driving around our little town, sitting in parking lots trying to figure out where to go. We have no family here and I really don't have any friends here unfortunately. Nobody can make this better anyways. The friends I talk to on the phone cannot even begin to understand the level of despair and hopelessness I feel....they all get to KEEP their husbands Anything is better than this, KNOWING what's going to happen to him, what he's going to go through, the SUFFERING!
How am I suppose to watch this happen to him??? Our children??? I can't even begin to think about what our son is going to think. The WORST part is the knowing! My husband is being so brave and so strong, but I am quite certain he must be TERRIFIED! He told me last night that he's nervous about not being able to breathe or eat...I literally wanted to break down screaming. I cannot imagine what he must be feeling. I am trying to put on a brave face for him, but I honestly feel like I would rather a tornado rip through our house in the middle of the night than this, anything is better than this.
I am already mourning the loss of him and he is still here. This makes no sense. He is so young, our kids are young, were just starting out. We have plans.....we have plans. I don't even know if this is the right forum for me to be saying all this. I can't say this stuff to him. One minute I think I am ok and the next minute I'm in a pit of despair. I've already gotten on medication.
How hilarious....I'm seeing a psychiatrist, my husband is diagnosed with a terminal illness and to think a month ago I was complaining about disliking my job or being tired or having to do the laundry or whatever other stupid insignificant thing. I would take it all back, all of it, I'll do anything! He's eligible for clinical trials so I'll be asking for advice on those. Thanks for listening.
-Nikki
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