Hello everyone. I am pretty new here. My husband and I have an 11 year old daughter. Eric was diagnosed with ALS in September. His legs are pretty weak and we are getting a wheelchair tomorrow. He is unable to walk or stand for more than five minutes. He has fasciculations in most of his muscles and terrible, painful spasms.
So much has already changed. He no longer works and most physical activity just fatigues him so much. Even the way he feels to me is different. We have been married for 16 years and when I rest my hand on his leg and I have to look down just to make sure it is his leg.
I am a planner so I feel the need to prepare for everything. I am doing my very best to try to live in the now and try to enjoy what I have because it will continue to change. I want our daughter to have as many good memories of her dad before things get really bad.
I am grateful for the 25 years I have had with Eric, but I just want more and I want my daughter to have more.
Heather
So much has already changed. He no longer works and most physical activity just fatigues him so much. Even the way he feels to me is different. We have been married for 16 years and when I rest my hand on his leg and I have to look down just to make sure it is his leg.
I am a planner so I feel the need to prepare for everything. I am doing my very best to try to live in the now and try to enjoy what I have because it will continue to change. I want our daughter to have as many good memories of her dad before things get really bad.
I am grateful for the 25 years I have had with Eric, but I just want more and I want my daughter to have more.
Heather