mlkchung
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- Joined
- Sep 6, 2008
- Messages
- 6
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 01/2000
- Country
- UK
I've posted a few times before and wanted to give u all an update on my mom. She has no movement at all anywhere and is reliant on a ventilator around the clock and a feeding tube through her nose (we had complications with the stomach one). She's been diagnosed since 1999 as her symptoms around a year earlier then that.
It started from foot drop, to wheelchair (01), to arms (05), to losing weight (06), to jaw lock (07), to restlessness, to respiratory failure (08 ) , to her situation now.
Unfortunately things can and did get worse. She was able to move her eyes and her head a year after the trach, but now she can't move anything, she can even open her eyes.
Has anyone seen or heard if such an extreme case where u can't even open their eyes or move their eyeballs?
I miss her little blinks and signs that she used to give even if it was challenging to understand, but now I have nothing..... I still have her which I'm so so grateful for but I miss her at the same time.
I know her eyes are dry, so we put gel patches over them at night and give her some gel based drops recommended but the eye doctor that came to see her.
I just talk, kiss and hold her. We have two caretakers and my father there 24-7. But any advice where I can make her feel better? Anything!? We massage her, turn her every 1.5-3 hours... But what can I do for her emotionally?
Thanks for reading .... And would love any sharing of similar experiences, suggestions or ideas....
Love,
Margaret
It started from foot drop, to wheelchair (01), to arms (05), to losing weight (06), to jaw lock (07), to restlessness, to respiratory failure (08 ) , to her situation now.
Unfortunately things can and did get worse. She was able to move her eyes and her head a year after the trach, but now she can't move anything, she can even open her eyes.
Has anyone seen or heard if such an extreme case where u can't even open their eyes or move their eyeballs?
I miss her little blinks and signs that she used to give even if it was challenging to understand, but now I have nothing..... I still have her which I'm so so grateful for but I miss her at the same time.
I know her eyes are dry, so we put gel patches over them at night and give her some gel based drops recommended but the eye doctor that came to see her.
I just talk, kiss and hold her. We have two caretakers and my father there 24-7. But any advice where I can make her feel better? Anything!? We massage her, turn her every 1.5-3 hours... But what can I do for her emotionally?
Thanks for reading .... And would love any sharing of similar experiences, suggestions or ideas....
Love,
Margaret