Adrivtham's thread

[adrivtham]

Mawe, I read your post and your husband stage is the same as my husband....How long has he been like that?
I called his mom yesterday, thinking the end is approaching.... Maybe I am just too scared.
He is now in and out of sleep, and can't control his sphincters so we are thinking to start using diapers.
He can't communicate and has sometimes the look of been lost not knowing what he wants or needs. I ask him several times for him to give me a sign of yes or not but even that is difficult.
Cals that lost the loved one, How I know the end is getting closer?... My parents are sick and I was thinking to go and see them. They live in south America, and just take a week, but I am afraid to do anything.
I am so lost, so sad

 

[soonerwife]

[c]Si: DEMT Summ Demm Dupvopaif[/c]

efsowvjen, O en tussz vu jies zuas qesipv't esi omm. Tipfoph jaht zuas xez!

Ov nohjv ci jimqgam og zua eff nusi ecuav jot dupfovoup. Fuit ji jewi giifoph vaci? Fuit ji jewi pup-opwetowi wipvomevoup? Jux muph jet ji ciip op epf uav ug tmiiq epf muuloph mutv. Jet ji ciip cif cuapf gus e xjomi? Jux ot jot csievjoph? Ot ji up Jutqodi?

Tussz O en etloph tu nepz raitvoupt. Tuni ug vjiti dep jimq at civvis apfistvepf vji tovaevoup.

 

[adrivtham]

[c]Si: DEMT Summ Demm Dupvopaif[/c]

Jo tuupisxogi vjepl zua gus eptxisoph,
Ji jet giifoph vaci, atit pup opwetowi wipvomevoup (vsomuhz) nutv ug vji voni. Ji ot op jutqodi (ev juni), cav jupitvmz vjiz fup'v tez nadj.
Ji ot civxiip jot djeos epf op cif nutv ug vji voni. Ji muult mutv. O etl jon og ji xepvt vu hu vu vji cevjsuun (vji xez xi tusv ug dunnapodevi ot vjanct aq gus zit epf vjanct fuxp gus pu) cav ji jet jesf voni vu iwip muuloph ev ni epf ji dep'v fidofi. Ov ot tuuu jesf epf tef

 

[ShiftKicker]

Nuf puvi: Nuwif vu uxp vjsief tu vjiti raitvoupt fup'v hiv mutv op vji hipisem DEMT aqfevit.

 

[lgelb]

Efsowvjen, vji miefoph sietupt vu cimoiwi vji ipf nohjv ci pies xuamf ci opdsietoph dupgatoup, djephit op tmiiq vjev dupvopai vu qsuhsitt, foggodamvz hivvoph ipuahj/iyqimmoph eos, pix mutt ug cmeffis/cuxim dupvsum, mutt ug dunnapodevoup opvisitv/ecomovz, sifadif opveli ug moraof epf guuf. E muv ug vjot ot op vji nopf et ximm -- jot siefopitt vu hu.

Apgusvapevimz, zua xomm jewi vu iwemaevi xjodj xuamf vsuacmi zua nusi -- mutoph e qesipv us mutoph zuas jatcepf xovjuav cioph vjisi.

Citv,
Measoi