Wow, Elaine!
I remember going through the make-the-house-better-to-sell-it thing. When I was married and lived in Miami, we bought a house for $205K. It had pink walls, green splatter/drip-painted walls, contractor grade crap kitchen, pink carpet, pink tile, and was just ugly, ugly, ugly! It was a slow fixing up process. First I painted all the walls white just so they wouldn't be pink and green. Then we had gray tile put in through the whole house. I had to sand the stairs, stain the treads, and paint the risers white (while living there, which meant doing every other stair so we could use the stairs... huge pain in the rear!). Hurricane Katrina ruined the kitchen, so we ripped it out, I had to redo the sheetrock on the outside wall because of the mold, then assemble and put in new cabinets, new appliances, and a gorgeous deep single-bowl white enamel cast iron sink (I miss this sink like you wouldn't believe... I bathed my son in it every night and never had to kill my back or knees when he was little!). At least we had a plumber do the plumbing, and Home Depot did the granite countertops. I petered out and never got around to doing the tile backspalsh. We put in a new front door. We had the outside painted. We had the landscaing done. We had a new AC and new hot water heater put in. It was beautiful when we were done! Anyways.... so around the time we were ready to sell, the house next door (not as nice as ours) sold for $412K! We just knew we had it made and were expecting to make around $150K on the sale... then the housing bubble burst, and it never sold. It's in foreclosure (it was in ex's name, not mine, thank heavens!) and sitting empty... ex took out the kitchen and installed it at his grandmother's apt over by the ocean, and someone stole the new AC and other robbers apparently gutted anything else that was left... AND it has squatters, but none of that is my problem!
Ha, what a story... anyways, what I meant to say was, I had a crazy experience trying to sell my house, so I hope your experience is much better and goes quickly for a great price! And yes, we are doing these things now so I can go through my things in private and not have people in stuff that isn't their business! Stay in control as long as you can!