Hello -- It's been a while as we are still kinda, sorta, working our way through this stage. We were also away on a family vacation and my hubby spent a few nights with my oldest son looking at colleges. So, it was back to reality last Wed.
We are using the Pride Go Chair for him to get around and a walkers the rest of the time. He hates the walkers! We are putting in a stair lift and ramps/lift in the house and looking into getting a van or converting my minivan to one that he can use.
We bought new socks and he is going to go through his clothes this weekend to get rid of stuff that no longer fits or works.
Some of the best advice that I got from y'all is to help him make his own decisions. I am struggling with how long it's taking him to make them but I know he is struggling emotionally. I made him agree to speak with a therapist who works with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy for grief and loss. I hope it helps him process all of this. He is having a lot of emotional trouble (obviously).
I will be back soon, I just wanted to check back in. It's been a tough few weeks for us. Hope you are all hanging in there.