Jason's Dream
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Jason's onset was December 2009 and he was diagnosed April 2010.
He can't bear weight on his legs now and needs the pattient lift to get into his motorized chair. He can't feed himself. He can't even raise his arms to push his glasses up on his nose when they slide down. He can't even work his fully electric hospital bed. His skin is breaking down and he has bed sores. He gasps for air at times. He can't work his dynavox because the palm of his hand drags across it and he can't reach the top of it. He can't formulate the muscles around his mouth to suck liquid down a straw. He chokes and aspirates alot. He can't cough things up on his own. Speech is gone other then grunts and groans. He has lost control of his bowels. He uses a BiPap machine, as well as a cough assist and a suction machine. He has a feeding tube in place. Currently I feed him by mouth, but more and more various foods are problematic and so we avoid various foods.
Its hard cause no longer can he kiss me without his mouth open (as he can't get it shut). He can no longer put his arm around me to hug me, reach out to hold my hand, tell me he loves me.. and the list is endless.
His papers from his doctors say he is progressing more rapidly then the average ALS patient.
With all that being said.. how much longer do we have together? I just want to be realistic. Are we looking at a few months? More? Less?
He also does not want a trach or vent.
Thanks.
~ Becca
He can't bear weight on his legs now and needs the pattient lift to get into his motorized chair. He can't feed himself. He can't even raise his arms to push his glasses up on his nose when they slide down. He can't even work his fully electric hospital bed. His skin is breaking down and he has bed sores. He gasps for air at times. He can't work his dynavox because the palm of his hand drags across it and he can't reach the top of it. He can't formulate the muscles around his mouth to suck liquid down a straw. He chokes and aspirates alot. He can't cough things up on his own. Speech is gone other then grunts and groans. He has lost control of his bowels. He uses a BiPap machine, as well as a cough assist and a suction machine. He has a feeding tube in place. Currently I feed him by mouth, but more and more various foods are problematic and so we avoid various foods.
Its hard cause no longer can he kiss me without his mouth open (as he can't get it shut). He can no longer put his arm around me to hug me, reach out to hold my hand, tell me he loves me.. and the list is endless.
His papers from his doctors say he is progressing more rapidly then the average ALS patient.
With all that being said.. how much longer do we have together? I just want to be realistic. Are we looking at a few months? More? Less?
He also does not want a trach or vent.
Thanks.
~ Becca