Penelope
Member
- Joined
- Aug 28, 2012
- Messages
- 23
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 08/2012
- Country
- AU
- State
- VIC
- City
- Melbourne
Hi everyone.
It has been a little over two years since I posted which is had enough to believe.
Dad was diagnosed a bit over two years ago with bulbar onset MND.
He seemed to remain quite well for a long period. His speech disappeared completely reasonably fast but he was still mobile walking often lifting some hand weights.
He has declined in the last few months. He needs a neck brace now has lost a lot of weight has a peg and almost all his food is taken in that way. He is also losing the ability to use his hands. Cannot do buttons or open some doors etc.
The scariest thing by far is the coughing fits.
They happen at night mostly with my Mum there and can take well over and hour to bring up what he needs to. They leave him exhausted and shaky and it is very scary for my Mum.
His care team have not recommended a suction device as they believe it increases the mucus. It seems he just has to battle on at this stage.
I am not even really sure what I am asking except that I feel powerless and confused and wish I could help in some way.
Is there any tips anyone can offer?
I also wonder what "stage"we are at here. I know it is very tricky to give time frames but with Dad still walking and moving about it seems hard to believe this could be close to the end. Does anyone have experience with this at this stage?
Thanks so much.
It has been a little over two years since I posted which is had enough to believe.
Dad was diagnosed a bit over two years ago with bulbar onset MND.
He seemed to remain quite well for a long period. His speech disappeared completely reasonably fast but he was still mobile walking often lifting some hand weights.
He has declined in the last few months. He needs a neck brace now has lost a lot of weight has a peg and almost all his food is taken in that way. He is also losing the ability to use his hands. Cannot do buttons or open some doors etc.
The scariest thing by far is the coughing fits.
They happen at night mostly with my Mum there and can take well over and hour to bring up what he needs to. They leave him exhausted and shaky and it is very scary for my Mum.
His care team have not recommended a suction device as they believe it increases the mucus. It seems he just has to battle on at this stage.
I am not even really sure what I am asking except that I feel powerless and confused and wish I could help in some way.
Is there any tips anyone can offer?
I also wonder what "stage"we are at here. I know it is very tricky to give time frames but with Dad still walking and moving about it seems hard to believe this could be close to the end. Does anyone have experience with this at this stage?
Thanks so much.