babygurl
Member
- Joined
- Feb 25, 2011
- Messages
- 15
- Diagnosis
- 01/2011
- Country
- US
- State
- GA
- City
- Hinesville
My finace hasn't spoken to me in 3 days despite the calls and messages. I'm really worried because he is still in Texas until I can go get him next week. A few days ago I told his parents what was going on with him. I had promised my finace 2 months ago that I wouldn't say anything but as time went on the guilt was killing me. I felt like they needed to know, because they would be devasted if he passed on and they didn't even know he was sick. But I also wanted to respect his wishes. My mother saw how stressed out I was getting trying to handle evrything on my own and she felt that we both needed the support of his family as well. So she took it upon herself t call his parents and told them that something was wrong with their son and they needed to call him. Well come to find out they didnt have his new number so when my finace's father called me in tears asking what was going on with him. I told him that hos son was sick but he didn't want anyone to know and he didn't want to be a burden and I gave him the new number. He tried that with me but I wasn't having it. Later that night my finace called me upset, telling me I didn't have a right to tell his folks. He been saying things, like he pissed at the world and he's sick of everybody and he wish everyone would leave him alone. He havn't spoken to me since then and that was 3 days ago. I have to admit I feel so much better now that his family know but he didn't want him to be mad at me either. Was I wrong for telling his parents?