Thomas933
Active member
- Joined
- Dec 4, 2018
- Messages
- 91
- Reason
- CALS
- Diagnosis
- 12/2018
- Country
- Uni
- State
- RI
- City
- Providence
Hi, yes I was doing better. Now, I’m so worried about the financial security of our family. Before this, we had a plan for retirement, college, etc.
My husband earns almost twice what I make. How are we going to survive when he can’t work? And, how will we make it once he is gone? He has life insurance but it won’t make up for the 20+ years of no 2nd income. I’ve thought about how we may have to move but the thought of moving my boys seems so cruel - I can’t take them away from their friends.
And, my husband already is so devastated by the burden he is putting on us (I don’t see it that way). The thought of talking to him about this seems so cruel.
We are meeting with our lawyer to do legal, power of attorney, etc on Monday. But, the financial piece is so hard to figure out. We will get a financial planner but should we also get a medical/disability attorney.
My husband earns almost twice what I make. How are we going to survive when he can’t work? And, how will we make it once he is gone? He has life insurance but it won’t make up for the 20+ years of no 2nd income. I’ve thought about how we may have to move but the thought of moving my boys seems so cruel - I can’t take them away from their friends.
And, my husband already is so devastated by the burden he is putting on us (I don’t see it that way). The thought of talking to him about this seems so cruel.
We are meeting with our lawyer to do legal, power of attorney, etc on Monday. But, the financial piece is so hard to figure out. We will get a financial planner but should we also get a medical/disability attorney.