Toyna-I bet the hold-up is someplace in one of the offices that are handeling your Dad's paperwork. You need to be persistent and don't feel shy about it. Your Dad is relying on you!
I've learned all the steps, and all the agencies, that are involved when my Doc makes a referral. Things get lost on his secretary's desk, at my insurance company's office, and at the clinic or lab where the paperwork also needs to be sent. Your Dad's paperwork may have a fourth office if he has a primary care physician and an ALS specialists. You will need to learn the steps, and as many contact names and phone numbers as you can gather so that you can track the progress of a referral from one office to the next. Keep his medical record numbers on hand, plus his social security number and date of birth, and put all these numbers together with the steps and contact numbers.
Finally, it may help to learn the name of your Dad's Doctor's secretary. He or she will be a big help the next time you are trying to get service. Hope this helps. Cindy