Woof
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- Jul 13, 2011
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- Loved one DX
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Hi, this is my first post to the forum. My mother has ALS First symptoms presented sep 2010, as slurred speech. After several tests, she was diagnosed with ALS in January 2011. Since then her speech has gone, her respitory capacity is down, she had difficulty swallowing and has weakness in limbs. She cannot walk much and must lately be assisted with pretty much all day-to-day activities (showering, putting on clothes). She recently had a RIG (like a PEG) put in and receives 95% of her calories through that. Lately, in the last few weeks, she seems much more tired, and seems to need to spend almost every second day in bed to recover from any exertions the previous day. She has also started to use IBAP for a few hours at a time (cannot seem to get into the habit of using it at night).
Our neuro, doctors, nurses etc dont seem to be able to (or want to) tell us how far along her final journey she is, and I cant blame them for that! But it is a question that plagues me. Does anyone have any thoughts/opinions on the rate of progression? From my own research it seems like a relatively rapid progression, and we are putting that down to the bulbar nature of the initial onset.
Finally, she is absolutely emotionally tormented by this. It is not unusual for her to be upset/teary several times each day. There is not really a sense that she has accepted her fate any more now than when she was diagnosed 8 months ago. Of course, I dont blame her for this, I dont think I would accept it if it was me either. But it breaks my heart that she is so tormented emotionally. But any advice/guidance on how to help her come to terms with her diagnosis?
Our neuro, doctors, nurses etc dont seem to be able to (or want to) tell us how far along her final journey she is, and I cant blame them for that! But it is a question that plagues me. Does anyone have any thoughts/opinions on the rate of progression? From my own research it seems like a relatively rapid progression, and we are putting that down to the bulbar nature of the initial onset.
Finally, she is absolutely emotionally tormented by this. It is not unusual for her to be upset/teary several times each day. There is not really a sense that she has accepted her fate any more now than when she was diagnosed 8 months ago. Of course, I dont blame her for this, I dont think I would accept it if it was me either. But it breaks my heart that she is so tormented emotionally. But any advice/guidance on how to help her come to terms with her diagnosis?