mbmurray
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Jan 10, 2013
- Messages
- 117
- Reason
- PALS
- Diagnosis
- 01/2013
- Country
- US
- State
- VA
- City
- NOVA
After getting my diagnosis in Jan of this year, started planning bucket items. Tops was a trip to the Antarctic, no one wanted to go with me, so I settled on a cruise to Alaska, we are leaving this Saturday (10 days also spending some time in Vancouver).
Now the problem, my brother in-law, wife's sisters husband (They live 15 minutes from us and are over our house every week) has been in the hospital for the past 2 weeks. First it was to get a stent, but then his kidneys and liver has started to fail and now on ventilation. Tomorrow they are checking if he still has brain activity. Not looking good.
Should I continue to go on the cruise (my mom/dad are going as well as my sister and her daughter). My wife and I feel bad going if he passes especially before we leave on the cruise, but at the same time, not sure if/when I will be able to take a trip like this in the future (from a money and health perspective)....
Now the problem, my brother in-law, wife's sisters husband (They live 15 minutes from us and are over our house every week) has been in the hospital for the past 2 weeks. First it was to get a stent, but then his kidneys and liver has started to fail and now on ventilation. Tomorrow they are checking if he still has brain activity. Not looking good.
Should I continue to go on the cruise (my mom/dad are going as well as my sister and her daughter). My wife and I feel bad going if he passes especially before we leave on the cruise, but at the same time, not sure if/when I will be able to take a trip like this in the future (from a money and health perspective)....