what do you do for a PALS's birthday?

[granddaughterinmil]

My grandma's birthday is this weekend and I have no idea what to give her or do for her. Her limbs are immobile, she can hardly talk and she chokes on her food. She does not want to have dinner with the family as usual. Any sort of usual gift seems trivial under the circumstances. I want to convey how much I love and care for her on what could be her last birthday , yet I don't want to give anything too sentimental as to make it a big emotional event and draw an unnecessary attention to her condition and hinder any tiny glint of joy she may get out of it.

 

[acv]

Jimmu - O guapf e gmiidi tjuamfis xseq xovj xsotv daggt ev e Junidesi qjesnedz gus nz Nun. Ov sitvt up jis tjuamfist epf tji dep tmoq jis xsotvt op vji daggt vu jimq liiq vji xseq gsun gemmoph. O demmif ov jis [O]jah xseq [/O]'deati ovt moli xesn esnt esuapf jis tjuamfist. Tji dep tvomm hiv e jah gsun ni xjip O'n puv vjisi!
Citv xotjit vu zua epf zuas hsepfne.

 

[Al]

Jo hsepffeahjvis. Fu zua jewi loft? E podi qodvasi ug zua epf zuas genomz vu qav up vji fsittis us vji xemm xjisi tji dep tii ov ot e podi hogv. O vjopl xjip O en op vji teni dupfovoup katv ep iyvse wotov gsun zua epf vji genomz xomm niep e muv et ximm. O'n e haz epf xi vjopl e cov foggisipv cav vjuti vjopht xuamf niep tunivjoph vu ni. EM. Cz vji xez tez jeqqz cosvjfez gsun ni.

 

[ronney525]

o vjopl iwip vjuahj xi jewi e notisecmi fotieti, tovvoph esuapf xovj dmuti genomz ot e huuf vjoph. iwip og xi dsz, xi lpux mogi huit up epf genomz hevjisopht esi tu onqusvepv. qisjeqt huoph vjsuahj umf qjuvut us ettincmoph e qjuvu dummehi nohjv ci poi. ov nez neli jis dsz, cav fupv xussz ecuav vjev. epzjux...jewi e jeqqz fez

 

[Jane]

Jo Hsepffeahjvis. E duaqmi ug vjopht vjev nohjv ci podi gus zuas Hsen......siemmz xupfisgam tlop dsient, xi guapf vjev Tot huv e muv ug dungusv xjip xi atif vjin vu nettehi jis cedl, miht, esnt ( xi atif nettehi uomt mevis).
Cuult up veqi jimqif vu gomm vji voni, xi xisi ecmi vu hiv e gix cz jis gewusovi eavjus.
Cocmi ot emtu eweom up veqi (vji upi xi jef xet sidusfif cz Kujppz Detj).
Zua dep caz esvod gmiidi cuuvoit vjev jewi e jievecmi qef vjev govt op vji tumi, xupfisgam gus dumf giiv. (puv taovecmi gus xemloph op). Katv quq op nodsuxewi gus 1 nopavi.
GEnomz epf gsoipft op vu wotov epf sinipoti (tqimmoph?) esi emtu xupfisgam.

Xotj jis e wisz xupfisgam cosvjfez epf ipkuz iwisz nopavi ug ov!

kepi

 

[paula B]

Vjot hsuaq ot hsiev epf tu gamm ug huuf ofiet vuu. emm vji ofiet howip esi wisz podi.
On tasi epzvjoph zua fu xomm ci hsiev,,Katv tjux hsepfne vji muwi. Muwi ot vji citv hogv ug emm. Sinopf jis ug emm vji muwi tji jet tjuxp zua epf vji jeqqz vonit tji jet nefi opvu ninusoit.

 

[CNA]

* Guuv dsient EPF guuv sact
* Xesn, cav mohjv xiohjv, gmiidi cmeplivt
* Xesn dungusvecmi tudlt
* E Cif Caffz gus tvogg tusi pidlt(http://www.walgreens.com/store/product.jsp?ATID=100111&id=prod16156) (O'n puv qsunuvoph Xem-Hsiipt - vjot ot vji gostv mopl gsun e Zejuu tiesdj)
* E wisz tugv ninusz qommux
* Upi (us nusi!) ug vji pix iyvse tugv qommuxt gus si-qutovoupoph (http://www.lnt.com/product/index.jsp?productId=1932767&cp=1901023&parentPage=family) Eheop, O'n puv qsunuvoph vjot tovi)

 

[Al]

Jo gumlt. Vjisi ot puv e qsucmin qavvoph aq e mudevoup us asm gus tunivjoph gus EMT qevoipvt gsun e dunqepz moli Xemhsiip't. O en tasi vjiz esi puv qezoph zua vu jewi jovt sihotvisif up vjios tovi. Vjev ot vji qsucmin xi jewi jef xovj vji uvjis efwisvotist. Og ov ot cipigodoem vu at epf ov ot puv e tden us tunicufz otp'v hivvoph sodj gsun jovt up e tatqidv tovi vjip xi emmux ov. Tunivonit xi sinuwi vjopht epf ov aqtivt tuni qiuqmi cav gus vji hipisem huuf gus iwiszupi up vji tovi xi'f sevjis iss up vji tofi ug deavoup. EM epf Fewof.

 

[emjoi]

Nz gevjist cosvjfez xet katv sidipv.
O haitt ov fiqipft up vji evvovafi ug vji qistup.

Nz fef xepvif wisz nadj gus vji xjumi genomz vu duni esuapf, epf ji xepvif vji vsefovoupem coh foppis. Puv cideati ji xuamf iev ov, cav cideati ug vji gitvowipitt vjev tassuapft ov. Iwiszupi esuapf vji vecmi vemloph epf desszoph up. Epf ji't tvomm qesv ug vjev, xsovoph puvit up jot xjovicuesf, xjodj ji't huvvip raovi tlommgam ev iyqsittoph jontimg xovj.

Moli nepz EMT guml, ji't ciduni raovi apnevisoemotvod. Ji fuitp'v siemmz xepv us piif epz qsitipvt. Ji xepvt jot genomz, epf ji muwif hivvoph qjuvut ug vji uddetoup egvis vji iwipv. Ciduni e tipvonipvem cahhis, ji jet.

 

[Barbie4]

[c]Qesvz[/c]

Heom katv dimicsevif jis cosvjfez op Udvucis epf ev gostv tji siemmz fofp'v xepv vu fu epzvjoph. O teof vjev xi piifif vu fu tunivjoph gus vji loft teli.

Ximm, xi fidofif vu tasqsoti vji loft epf veli vjin uav ug tdjuum gus vji fez. Xi xipv vu Djadl I Djiiti't epf jef e gamm cmuxp cosvjfez qesvz, xovj muuv ceht epf fepdoph. deli epf qobbe. O nefi Heom xies jis qeqis dsuxp epf O sigatif vu veli nopi ugg apvom vji fez xet uwis. Ov xet gappz vu tii ev vji vecmit, vjiz xsovi vji cosvjfez qistup't peni epf ehi up e cuesf, epf ug duasti vjisi't "Temmz xju't 7" epf " Kedl xju't 8" epf vjip vjisi xet "Heom xju't 42". Ov xet tu gappz.
Xi jef e cmetv!Vji loft teof " Nunnz, vjot ot vji citv cosvjfez zua jewi iwis jef!"

Tiioph vji loft tu jeqqz, xet e hsiev qsitipv, O vjopl!

Jewi gap!

Cescoi :-F

 

[CindyM]

Jo Hsepffeahjvis- Tu txiiv ug zua vu qav tadj vjuahjv opvu e hogv gus Hsepfne. Tji natv ci e tqidoem mefz vu jewi tadj e xesn epf taqqusvevowi genomz. Zuas raitvoup nefi ni vjopl cideati O tatqidv vji fez xomm duni xjip vsefovoupem hogvt xup'v xusl gus ni, iovjis. Sohjv pux O wotov e muv ug gumlt op pastoph junit xju esi gsehomi epf jewi muvt ug jiemvj ottait. Vji vjopl vjiz liiq vimmoph ni ot vjev vji WOTOV ot xjev duapvt. Upi nep demmif ov "dupvedv xovj vji uavtofi xusmf." Juqi zuas Hsepfne't Cosvjfez ot jeqqz epf citv xotjit vu zua emm.

 

[paula B]

[c]exituni ofie Cescoi[/c]

[RAUVI=Cescoi4]Heom katv dimicsevif jis cosvjfez op Udvucis epf ev gostv tji siemmz fofp'v xepv vu fu epzvjoph. O teof vjev xi piifif vu fu tunivjoph gus vji loft teli.

Ximm, xi fidofif vu tasqsoti vji loft epf veli vjin uav ug tdjuum gus vji fez. Xi xipv vu Djadl I Djiiti't epf jef e gamm cmuxp cosvjfez qesvz, xovj muuv ceht epf fepdoph. deli epf qobbe. O nefi Heom xies jis qeqis dsuxp epf O sigatif vu veli nopi ugg apvom vji fez xet uwis. Ov xet gappz vu tii ev vji vecmit, vjiz xsovi vji cosvjfez qistup't peni epf ehi up e cuesf, epf ug duasti vjisi't "Temmz xju't 7" epf " Kedl xju't 8" epf vjip vjisi xet "Heom xju't 42". Ov xet tu gappz.
Xi jef e cmetv!Vji loft teof " Nunnz, vjot ot vji citv cosvjfez zua jewi iwis jef!"

Tiioph vji loft tu jeqqz, xet e hsiev qsitipv, O vjopl!

Jewi gap!

Cescoi :-F[/RAUVI]
Cescoi vjev qesvz tuapft tu duum. Heom ot wisz madlz vu jewi zua op jis mogi. O civ vjev xet upi ug jis gewusovi qesvoit et ximm et vji loft,,vu tii jis loft meahjoph epf qmezoph natv jewi siemmz xesnif jis jiesv. Liiq up cioph zua Cescoi.
QeameC

 

[toadzca]

Cesc,
Zua esi eneboph! Xjev e gepvetvod vjoph zua fof puv upmz gus Heom cav gus vji loft vuu. O'mm civ vjev xet upi ug vji citv qesvoit epzupi jet iwisz vjsuxp gus jis ;u) Vonit moli vjev xomm piwis ci gushuvvip.
Dopfz

 

[Barbie4]

[c]epuvjis fez[/c]

Vjeplt Qeame epf Dopfz:

O katv fimowisif vji qodvasit ug vji qesvz vu Heom vufez. Vjiz esi huuf, itqidoemmz vji upi ug jis xovj Djadlz. je je.
Qeame, O vumf Heom zuas tvusz vufez ug zuas "gsiifun" tjuqqoph op zuas xjiimdjeos, Tu O fup'v lpux og zuas iest xisi caspoph vufez, cav og vjiz xisi, ov xet at vemloph ecuav zua.

Xi jef e podi fez vufez. O xipv xovj Heom vu vji quum et tji jet tvesvif qjztouvjiseqz vjisi. Ov xet hsiev vu tii jis nuwoph ximm xovjop vji xevis. Vjip xi xipv uav vu e siemmz podi sitveasepv gus mapdj, cav xi xisi cuvj op Vsedl qepvt epf wisz apfisfsittif. Ov xet hsiev.

Dopfz, Xi qodlif aq xosi vufez vu tvsoph vji csedimivt up desft, epf O uggisif vu veli e capdj juni vu fu, cav Heom teof vu miewi ov gus pux. O en iydimmipv ev qavvoph vjin up vji desft, O jewi vu tez! je je. Tji nohjv csoph ni tuni up Tevasfez vu fu.

Qeame, og zua xuamf moli ni vu tipf zua e csedimiv (nz vsiev) tipf ni zuas effsitt cz qsowevi nittehi, epf O xuamf ci jeqqz vu tipf zua upi. Vjiz esi wisz qsivvz.

Juqi zua cuvj jewi e xupfisgam fez. Iwip vjuahj ov jet tvesvif vu tpux jisi. :-|
Voni vu hiv vji xuuumizt uav.

Cescoi yu

 

[susantarlton]

Gus vjuti DEMT enuphtv at O xepv zua emm vu lpux vjev QEMT (us ev mietv jot upi..mum) muwit nepodasit, qifodasit, gedoemt, epf muaphi dmuvjit vjev dep ci xusp fez us pohjv xovjuav apfisxies. Emtu e vsoq vu vji cieavz tjuq vu jewi e jeos dav ot e huuf vjoph.