10steps
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Jan 1, 2011
- Messages
- 140
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 04/2010
- Country
- US
- State
- MA
- City
- western
I don't know how to curb the well meaning folks that are really just creating more stress. I'm a bit angry right now. My sister in law came over while I was at work and had my husband drink her elixer...basically he drank about a cup of butter - she wanted him to drink more. he doesn't swallow all that reliably. Now lets see what time he needs me to get him to the bathroom - no easy feat and not something he can do himself. He's now nervous he's going to mess himself - justifiably so -and her reply was she will come over and clean him up. Oh really, he'll just marinate the 45minutes it will take for her to get to our house - spectacular - thanks so much. Then she can figure out how to change him and replace his recliner. It ticks me off this happens while I have to work...he's defenseless and there not a whole lot he can do.
I don't need anymore of this kind of help. i'm venting but I'm also throwing all her herbs and spices out!
I don't need anymore of this kind of help. i'm venting but I'm also throwing all her herbs and spices out!