dlfoster
New member
- Joined
- Mar 14, 2015
- Messages
- 5
- Reason
- Friend was DX
- Country
- US
- State
- NC
- City
- CHARLOTTE
Hi Everyone,
I posted back in March asking questions as to how best help my friend with ALS. We live 1000s of miles away from each other, but I wanted to let her know that my thoughts and prayers were always with her. I received some great replies and ideas to let her know I'm thinking of her.
I am going to visit her for the first time since she was diagnosed (Sept 2014) and not really sure what to expect. She is still living in her home and has great support from her family. I know she has caregivers 24/7 now, has lost a lot of her ability to speak, can only type with one hand and is using a walker.
I guess I am just looking for some comments as I am afraid I will let her down and cry the first time I see her and I don't want her worrying about me and my feelings. I want to be uplifting and help her, not make her feel worse. I want our visit to be great!
I guess I'm just looking for some comments and/or suggestions of what we might be able to do on my visit to make it great. Another concern of mine is I'm not going to be able to understand what she says and I don't want to keep asking her to repeat herself. I know she gets tired quickly. I don't want to be a burden during my visit (3 days) I want to make it fun for her.
Any comments would be greatly appreciated. My prayers are with you always.
Regards,
Deborah
I posted back in March asking questions as to how best help my friend with ALS. We live 1000s of miles away from each other, but I wanted to let her know that my thoughts and prayers were always with her. I received some great replies and ideas to let her know I'm thinking of her.
I am going to visit her for the first time since she was diagnosed (Sept 2014) and not really sure what to expect. She is still living in her home and has great support from her family. I know she has caregivers 24/7 now, has lost a lot of her ability to speak, can only type with one hand and is using a walker.
I guess I am just looking for some comments as I am afraid I will let her down and cry the first time I see her and I don't want her worrying about me and my feelings. I want to be uplifting and help her, not make her feel worse. I want our visit to be great!
I guess I'm just looking for some comments and/or suggestions of what we might be able to do on my visit to make it great. Another concern of mine is I'm not going to be able to understand what she says and I don't want to keep asking her to repeat herself. I know she gets tired quickly. I don't want to be a burden during my visit (3 days) I want to make it fun for her.
Any comments would be greatly appreciated. My prayers are with you always.
Regards,
Deborah